Behavioral Requests > Criticism/Confrontation

At a friend gathering, a dear friend started sharing thoughts on immigration that was hard for me to hear, as the only non white member. So I requested she speak about her direct experience rather than her opinion on what other people are/aren’t allowed to do. I also requested she share the group time with others since we only gather every few months. It was heated for a few moments, but better for everyone after that.

[zoom out] As Cycle Breakers, the burden of making spaces feel more safe may land on you a bit more, because you have the skillset and awareness. We “need” more Cycle Breakers to shift the collective from conditioning to consciousness. “Need” not in a “salvation” way, but as in “need” as it will make the transition so much smoother.

See folx on Tue at 9:45am for our weekly open group.

*FYI: Andrea, a skilled Boundary Coach trainee, will host Tue group on 3/10 while I’m at a Family constellation conference next week.