#Feature Story: the WHY in my life’s work
I do what I do because I’ve seen what happens when children grow up in homes filled with yelling, fear, criticism, and disconnection, and I’ve also seen the incredible transformation that happens when calm, structure, fun and respect replaces chaos. I’m passionate about this work because kids don’t just “get over” how they were treated… they carry it into adulthood, relationships, and how they parent next. After more than 40 years of helping families, as a teacher, coach, and parenting expert, I know that cooperation isn’t about control… it’s about connection and mutual respect. My mission is to break generational cycles, strengthen families, and give parents simple tools that work in real life, so children grow up feeling safe, valued, and truly seen, just like we would like for ourselves. This is bigger than parenting tips, it’s generational change. We CAN raise kids who don’t have to recover from childhood, and create homes where violence is no longer normal.