It seems like a lot of the guys here are just starting out building their Instagram profiles and have very few followers. This immediately breaks the whole preselection and "social proof" illusion, in my opinion. A "verified" checkmark next to your name is only worth something if you have a consistent following, otherwise it's just stupid (no real point in paying Meta a monthly fee if only your mom follows you on Instagram). This is not a new idea at all (and I believe similar threads already exist on this forum), but instead of growing in isolation, let’s create a simple place to connect. Drop your IG handle below + 1 sentence on your niche/vibe. Follow 5–10 people above you whose content you genuinely resonate with, and like a few posts so the algorithm connects you. When you follow someone, reply to their comment so they can follow back if they want. The goal is to create a supportive, high-quality social graph inside the group, not a cheesy “follow-for-follow.” This should help everyone get early momentum and makes the algorithm less brutal when starting from zero. IG: @bogdan1onescu

Hello I'm new to the Off Market Dating System / MOA etc. I am working through the material, (about 80%) and and F*cking fixing my IG! I never had one before so it's new. I have engaged an editor and have used previous photos. I, (like many it seems) don't have good pre-selection photos so I am using what I have for now and plan on getting better ones. I would appreciate any thoughts on / comments / perhaps a follow from you gents and I fully expect to be told it is NOT great but hey as am man I understand and am used to being given honest feedback in life. I plan on using it to improve, so fire away haha ;). Any follows / likes etc would be most appreciated... Here is my IG https://www.instagram.com/miguel_candeias/

Would love your thoughts and question for the more seasoned MoAs, do I tag the girls in the reel, or do I just send it to them so they like it? Thanks!

Share what city you are in and lets connect if youre in the same city as someone else!

Status and value are tricky things to convey. The key to IG seems to be just take action. Without posts, my IG page was dead. As I started to post daily, views and engagement surged. My wife has started to notice. 25 views in May became 6.7k views in Nov. Last night, I posted a simple reel highlighting my cooking POV. I really enjoy cooking for my family and see it adding value. The home we a starting here in California also subtly conveys status. Check it out: https://www.instagram.com/reel/DREM9TNDtp1/?igsh=NDNkYmZnbnRrOWpi If you saw my previous posts, I’m trying to keep a marriage together in hopes of staying around my two biological children. My wife made a comment right before we fell asleep in bed: Wife: “People have theories about why you started posting so much.” What a great shit test from a wife. Ok, let’s lean in. Me: “Interesting, what are the theories.” Wife: “I’m not going to tell you.” Me: “Ok.” What do you think of the response? What are the theories? Will my marriage survive to the four year mark? Want to join on the Chaos? Like, share, and follow to help me continue this growth experiment and confuse her friends: https://www.instagram.com/iansonnenberg?igsh=MWQwOXNjbzdjemNwbg%3D%3D&utm_source=qr