are people ACTUALLY against you… or is it just you?
Haha ever feel like every time you step out, people are just... against you?
Like the whole world woke up and chose to f*ck with you for no reason?
😂 Yeah… used to happen to me EVERY. FKN. TIME.
But here’s what I realized—it wasn’t them. It was me.
And it might be you too.
You’re Wearing Something That’s Screwing You Over
No, not your outfit lol.
It's your mindset.
Without even realizing it, you’ve been walking around with lenses of fear, anger, or guilt... and that sh*t is dictating everything.
And I know what you’re thinking:
“What does that have to do with people treating me weird?”
I used to ask the same thing.
Your Brain is Playing Tricks on You (And You Don’t Even Know It)
Don't want to get too ScIeNcY here...
BUT, your brain has something called the RAS (Reticular Activating System).
Basically, it’s like a filter—it looks for proof of whatever you already believe.
Think of it like this:
🔹 Ever buy a new car, and suddenly you start seeing that exact model EVERYWHERE?
🔹 Or hear a song once, and now it’s in every store, every TikTok, every Uber ride?
That’s your RAS in action... it highlights whatever is already in your mind.
And if you’ve been walking around thinking,
“People don’t like me” or “Everyone’s against me,” guess what?
Your brain is gonna look for proof of that everywhere.
Even if someone smiles at you, your RAS will twist it into:
"Oh, they’re probably laughing at me."
"They think I’m weird."
"They’re judging me."
And just like that, you turn a harmless moment into a confirmation that the world is against you.
Congrats. You just got played by your own brain.
Stop Playing the Wrong Game
For years, I was unknowingly operating in ME vs. THEM mode.
And because of that, my RAS kept showing me reasons to believe it.
But then I flipped it.
What if—instead of competition, I started seeing collaboration?
What if I walked into a room and thought,
“Everyone here is on my side” instead of “Everyone here is judging me”?
What if I trained my brain to look for proof that people actually liked me instead of assuming the worst?
Game changer.
Try This…
Next time you go out, assume—just for fun—that everyone is rooting for you.
See what happens.
Your brain will start looking for proof of that instead.
And you might just realize… the world was NEVER against you.
SO... What’s the story you’ve been telling yourself?
Drop a comment—I actually wanna know lol
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are people ACTUALLY against you… or is it just you?
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