Key questions we should ask ourselves What are my core values, and how do they influence my decisions and actions? What passions or activities make me lose track of time because I am so engaged and fulfilled? When have I felt the most proud of myself, and why? What are my biggest fears, and how do they hold me back from reaching my potential? If money and time were no object, what would I spend my days doing? How do I handle failure and setbacks, and what can I learn from my past experiences? In what ways do I want to grow and develop in the next 5 years? Who are the people who inspire me the most, and what qualities do they possess that I admire? What legacy do I want to leave behind, and how am I working towards it? How do I plan to make this world a better place for mankind? Being private, and not telling everyone anything self care. Seek respect, not attention. It lasts longer. There will always be someone who doesn't see your worth. Don't let it be you. Be careful who you trust. Salt and sugar look the same. Don't have regrets. Just do better next time. Some things have to end for better things to begin.

Systems thinking The Iceberg Model Learn about the theory and practice of systems thinking. The Iceberg Model Systems thinking is a way of approaching problems that asks how various elements within a system — which could be an ecosystem, an organization, or something more dispersed such as a supply chain — influence one another. Rather than reacting to individual problems that arise, a systems thinker will ask about relationships to other activities within the system, look for patterns over time, and seek root causes. One systems thinking model that is helpful for understanding global issues is the iceberg model. We know that an iceberg has only 10 percent of its total mass above the water while 90 percent is underwater. But that 90 percent is what the ocean currents act on, and what creates the iceberg’s behavior at its tip. Global issues can be viewed in this same way. Levels of Thinking 1. The Event Level The event level is the level at which we typically perceive the world—for instance, waking up one morning to find we have caught a cold. While problems observed at the event level can often be addressed with a simple readjustment, the iceberg model pushes us not to assume that every issue can be solved by simply treating the symptom or adjusting at the event level. 2. The Pattern Level If we look just below the event level, we often notice patterns. Similar events have been taking place over time — we may have been catching more colds when we haven’t been resting enough. Observing patterns allows us to forecast and forestall events. 3. The Structure Level Below the pattern level lies the structure level. When we ask, “What is causing the pattern we are observing?” The answer is usually some kind of structure. Increased stress at work due to the new promotion policy, the habit of eating poorly when under stress, or the inconvenient location of healthy food sources could all be structures at play in our catching a cold. According to Professor John Gerber, structures can include the following:

​The Architecture of Reality: Imagination over Fact Let man disregard use of imagination can man accept “Nothing stands between man and the fulfillment of his dreams but facts (the evidence of the senses). And facts are the creations of imagining. If man changes his imagining, he will change the facts. Neville Goddard ​At the heart of Neville’s philosophy is the belief that imagination is the ultimate reality. Most people operate under the "evidence of the senses," believing that what they see, touch, and hear dictates what is possible. If your bank account is empty, you believe you are poor; if you are alone, you believe you are unloved. Neville calls these "facts," but he argues they are not permanent truths—they are merely the solidified results of past imaginings. ​The Illusion of "Facts" ​The essay suggests that "facts" are not obstacles but mirrors. When Neville says "facts are the creations of imagining," he is suggesting that our dominant thoughts, feelings, and mental images eventually "harden into fact" in the physical world. Therefore, looking at a current "fact" and feeling defeated by it is like looking at a photograph you don't like and blaming the paper. The "negative" was created in the darkroom of the mind long before it appeared in the physical world. ​The Power of Revision ​The most empowering—and perhaps most difficult—part of this quote is the bridge to fulfillment: "If man changes his imagining, he will change the facts." This implies that we are not victims of circumstance, but architects of it. By consciously withdrawing our attention from the "evidence of the senses" (the current problem) and focusing entirely on the "fulfillment of the dream" (the desired end), we initiate a change in our external reality. ​In this view, the only thing "standing between" a person and their dream is their own insistence on believing that the current physical facts are more real than their internal vision. ​Reflective Questions ​These questions are designed to help you examine where your "facts" might be limiting your potential:

Who is your hero? I hope that you said that you are your own hero. A hero isn't a Superman or batman. A hero is simply a protector. Are you protecting your peace of mind, your sanity, your integrity, your honor? You should not only be your own hero, but you should also be your best friend and your own cheerleader. Bear Warrior Gonzales

Principles of a real man Share this with your sons, nephews, friends or anyone who could benefit from this. Principles of a Real Man: A Modern Perspective The concept of "real man" has evolved over time. Here are some principles that many people today associate with strong, admirable masculinity: Core Principles * Integrity: * Honesty: Be truthful and sincere in your words and actions. * Ethics: Adhere to a strong moral code. * Accountability: Take responsibility for your choices and mistakes. * Respect: * Self-Respect: Value yourself and your well-being . * Respect for Others: Treat everyone with dignity and kindness, regardless of their background. * Respect for Women: Value women as equals and treat them with respect. * Responsibility: * Financial Responsibility: Manage your finances wisely. * Family Responsibility: Provide for and protect your family. * Community Responsibility: Contribute positively to your community. * Emotional Intelligence: * Self-Awareness: Understand your own emotions and how they influence your behavior. * Empathy: Be able to understand and share the feelings of others. * Effective Communication: Express yourself clearly and listen actively. * Physical and Mental Health: * Physical Fitness: Maintain a healthy lifestyle through regular exercise. * Mental Well-being: Prioritize mental health and seek help when needed. * Courage: * Facing Fears: Confront challenges head-on. * Standing Up for Beliefs: Defend what you believe in. * Resilience: Bounce back from setbacks. Additional Qualities * Kindness: Show compassion and empathy. * Humility: Recognize your limitations and be open to learning. * Patience: Remain calm and composed in difficult situations. * Perseverance: Keep working towards your goals, even when faced with obstacles. * Humor: Find joy in life and share laughter with others. Remember, these are just guidelines. True masculinity is about being the best version of yourself, regardless of societal expectations.