When I say I use to be an EXPERT people pleaser.. I mean it..I honestly think I might have been the best on the planet. Always sacrificing my own needs to put others first. shrinking myself and agreeing with others so I could fit in and make sure they liked me.. I remember one time someone was talking about a political stance and even though I disagreed with LITERALLY everything he was saying, I was too afraid to stand in my truth so I molded myself to his way of thinking, making him feel as if I had the exact same views as he did... talk about letting others have power of you. Who else used to be a professional people pleaser?.. thinking that being nice, agreeable, helpful, and selfless would earn love, respect, connection Would love to know if you guys have any lessons you’ve learned about breaking free from this pattern? Something that's helped me is realizing that literally NO ONE cares about me or is thinking about me like I think they do.. We're all human with 1,000+ different problems, ideas, goals, quagmires etc... I realized i'm just not that important... this humbled me and brought me so much weight off of my life. people pleasing usually starts early...from being a “parent pleaser” learning that to be safe or loved, you had to be good, avoid conflict, make everyone else comfortable, abandon your own needs so others wouldn’t abandon you but over time… that “good” identity gets heavy because it’s not the real you... it’s who you thought you had to be true healing is choosing authenticity over approval ... being real instead of agreeable... not fixing others to avoid feeling what's uncomfortable inside what if you didn’t need to earn love anymore? what if who you are… is already enough? also... what if I made a guide that went deep into validating the inner child and releasing this pattern?.. Would you want it? If you do, download it below. ... you're enough.. you always have been.. you always will be.. Let's all come back to our truth. also curious about your own people pleasing experiences