...You build it.
Sometimes I look at my week ahead & genuinely have to pinch myself.
Not because it’s perfect.
Not because there’s no pressure.
But because of the sheer variety, freedom, people & purpose that now fill my weeks.
And because I remember the years when none of this existed:
- The years of Poverty, Abuse, Bankruptcy and even homelessness
- The Stress.
- Working every hour
- Building & losing a businesses.
- Starting again.
Grinding through my 20s, 30s and much of my 40s to create the life I live today.
People often ask me:
“What does your week look like?”
The truth is, no 2 weeks are ever the same
This week alone:
Monday
- I’ll spend the day at an exclusive Rolls-Royce event in Yorkshire. Not just around beautiful cars, but around philanthropy, networking and one of the greatest examples of British engineering, craftsmanship and quality in the world.
- Then 2x 1-2-1 mentoring sessions in the evening
Tuesday
- starts with breakfast with the Commercial Executive at Peterborough United Football Club. Not because football is everything to me, but because POSH are the heartbeat of my home city. - Then into London for a Royal Garden Party at Buckingham Palace.
Wednesday
- starts mentoring one of my clients in Bali, who's helping people overcome addiction & rebuild their lives through the incredible work they do there
- Then a group Zoom with one of my longest-known clients, a business that has grown from a handful of pharmacies into one of the UK's Top 1% businesses.
- Then onto a CPCA Business Board at AstraZeneca in Cambridge.
- Then 2 more 1-2-1 mentoring sessions.
- Then our Growth Syndicate group Zoom.
And then Thursday through Monday in Mallorca:
- Sunshine, Friends, Resetting, Re-grounding, Recharging.
Every day above ground truly is a great day!
But some weeks just remind you how important it is to consciously build a life, not simply drift through one.
And before anyone says:
“You’re lucky.”
Maybe.
- But I also earned this life.
- I worked insanely hard for decades to create flexibility, freedom, relationships & opportunities.
And that is the bit people miss
Most people want the outcome
Very few are willing to live the years required to create it
The beautiful thing is this:
In the UK, with freedom of movement, freedom of enterprise and freedom to choose differently, extraordinary lives are still available to everyone willing to think and act differently
I know that because I have worked with people who started with nothing.
- People born in caravans.
- People born into poverty.
- People without qualifications.
- Who then built extraordinary businesses & lives.
Not because they were chosen.
Because they chose.
If you keep doing what you’ve always done,
you’ll keep getting what you’ve always got
So maybe the better question is not:
“What does your week look like?”
Maybe the better question is:
“What week are you building towards?”