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Balancing Responsibilities Without Forgetting Yourself
Lately, I’ve been under a lot of pressure from different areas of life. There are financial responsibilities that require strict saving, careful planning, and zero room for mistakes. On top of that, February and March are packed with commitments and holidays that need both time and money. While trying to take care of everyone’s needs and keep things stable, I’ve noticed a pattern: I usually put myself last. I postpone buying things I genuinely want—like new clothes or workout equipment—and tell myself “later” is more responsible. Most of the time, I’m okay with that decision. That said, I do make sure to protect my mental space. I spend time with people who matter to me, and I always keep at least one full off-day—even on busy weeks. No work, no pressure, no overthinking. Just movies, rest, and enjoyment. Still, I feel like something is missing. I’m not someone whose love language is gifts, but when you’ve been wanting something for a long time—especially under financial stress—getting it can feel deeply meaningful. Almost like proof that you’re allowed to take care of yourself the same way you take care of others. So I’m curious to hear your perspectives, gents: - How do you handle situations like this? - How do you balance responsibility with self-care—especially when money is tight—without guilt or over-restriction? Looking forward to your thoughts.
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🚨 Jan 31st LIVE Call with the Founder of MaxAroma 🚨
Gents - quick heads-up. This one’s going to be a blast. 🔥 On January 31st at 10:00 AM CST, we’ve got Hamed Arefian (Co-Founder of MaxAroma) joining us LIVE. Come hang out, ask your questions, and get some behind-the-scenes insight! ✅ Click here to join the call on Jan 31st at 10AM CST: https://www.skool.com/rmrs/calendar?eid=b7a9560f749a46ee9952e2f9fa6c88a2 Now drop it in the comments: what’s your signature scent right now? 👇
🚨 Jan 31st LIVE Call with the Founder of MaxAroma 🚨
OOTD-CW 26 January 2026
Critiques always welcome Heater blew in the middle of winter, so the HVAC is being replaced today, ensuring I won't get much done today. Granted, although our morning are cold, our daytime highs will be in the 70s much of the week. Today's Outfit Shirt: Nordstrom blue barrel cuff with a slight dobby diamond structure in the weave Slacks: Santorelli tan wool slacks with a faint brown check Jacket: Peter Millar Italian Blue wool 2-button single-breasted jacket Tie: Silvio Fiorello Renaissance geometry pattern tie in vivid blues and green Belt: Hanks Belt leather with silver buckle in Havana brown Shoes: Thursday Boots Saint double monk straps in cinnamon brown Socks: Fort Belvedere OTC cotton socks mid-brown with blue shadow stripe Pocket Square: Fort Belvedere white linen pocket square with hand-stitched Xs around the border in navy Watch: Fossil Townsman with blue faceplate and cinnamon brown leather band
OOTD-CW 26 January 2026
Surprised and Humbled!!
I woke up this morning and saw that In had reached Level 9!! I am completely Humbled. While I have been in these communities for only a few months, I have met (virtually) so many wonderful people that are so generous with their time and knowledge. The interactions are always positive and thought provoking! (which is rare these days) and I thank @Antonio Centeno @Antonio O. Centeno @Antonio Cent for keeping the no A-Hole policy in force!! This is truly a place where we can be individuals with our own version of classic style, but also help others early in their journey. It is truly a blessing. I am honored to have made it to level 9 even though I still feel like an imposter! That being said I want to thank everyone who I've interacted with! But specifically @John Witvoet and @James Milson and @Sean Kavanaugh for starting a rally cry to push me over the top. I was unaware how close I was and am truly humbled for their help. There is also the literal TON of people thatI really enjoy seeing their posts everyday and our conversations. @Jesse Alonzo , @Brian McGuire , @Raymond Reeves , @Anthony Buntyn , @Chad Smith , @Banjo Piggott Wright , @Michael McDonnell @William Feldtmose & @Robert Meyers ! I'm sure I've missed several of you, but please take my vote of thanks as well!! I am honored to be here with ALL of you and sitting at the General's table with the greats in this community is something that I am very proud of! Thank you ALL!! and I look forward to carrying the torch in the most honorable way I can!!
Surprised and Humbled!!
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