Man I love how the Van Wijk knot looks, the structure to the stack and the way the dimple comes out are just perfect. This is what I wore to the client interview today, and if I can toot my own horn, it went well. I always interview well, it’s that gift of the gab thing. Having grown up in a defense family and spending 26 years in the navy myself I am very comfortable talking to people. The role should be interesting, but I wont know until probably tomorrow (Friday here) and Start on the Monday at the earliest. Todays outfit consists of; M.J. Bale Pascal Peacoat in Navy. Such an amazing coat to wear in 4°C (40°F), M.J. Bale Aston Suit in a Charcoal Super 120’s cloth, with a subtle Navy POW check, Charles Tyrwhitt Twill Prince of Wales Check Shirt in Light Blue, and probably my favourite shirt, OTAA Silver Navy And Light Blue Striped Tie with the amazing Van Wijk Knot, Anson Black Premium leather strap with a Classic Curved buckle in Gunmetal Mr Perfect Sock, I can wear these guilt free as they were given to me by my wife 😜 Ecco Vitrus Penny Loafer, SOTD - Dior Fahrenheit Parfum WOTD - Islander Greenport with Stone Grey Dial and Sky Blue Accents

Amarillo visits today, with some follow ups in Lubbock after yesterday’s lunch and learn event. Yesterday the presentation went really well. Lots of contractor interest. - black performance polo with company logo - Brown leather belt - Slim fit blue jeans - Brown lace up boots - Bulova Marine Star watch.

In today’s society, the decline of traditional gentlemanly qualities has become increasingly evident, leading to what many perceive as a crisis in masculinity. Are men truly stepping into their roles as gentlemen, or are we witnessing an extinction of these vital virtues? This post explores why embracing the principles of a true gentleman is essential for individuals and society at large, highlighting the importance of reestablishing morals, morals, and standards for the next generation. Recent years have shown a shift in societal expectations and behaviors, with many men neglecting the core traits that define a gentleman—respect, integrity, morals, and chivalry. Anthony Buntyn passionately discusses how society has veered away from these qualities, turning instead toward entitlement, self-centeredness, and superficial fame. This decline isn't just a cultural trend; it’s a crisis threatening the fabric of social cohesion. As Buntyn emphasizes, a society without gentlemen—men who lead by example—becomes fractured, often resulting in increased violence, crime, and a lack of positive role models for our youth. The question is: how did we get here, and what can be done to reverse this trend? Buntyn introduces a powerful analogy to explain how the noble qualities of being a gentleman have been gradually eroded: the boiling frog. If a frog is suddenly thrown into boiling water, it jumps out immediately; but if you heat the water slowly, it boils to death unnoticed. This metaphor vividly captures how societal changes—gradual and subtle—have slowly chipped away at these virtues. Decades ago, men were trained in morals, manners, and respect, but over time, these standards have been ‘boiled out’ of men’s behaviors. Recognizing this slowly happening is crucial to understanding why reintroducing and reinforcing these qualities is not optional but necessary. Fortunately, Buntyn points out that efforts are underway to rebuild what has been lost. The Society of Ordinary Gentlemen exemplifies a movement dedicated to training men to embody qualities like honor, discipline, and respectful conduct. This society encourages men to see being a gentleman as a lifelong commitment—one that involves daily actions and choices. The Society also promotes the development of young men through initiatives like the Junior Society of Ordinary Gentlemen, aiming to instill foundational virtues before they enter adulthood. Such programs focus on practical skills—how to dress, communicate, handle confrontations, and work ethically—creating role models for future generations.