How to interact with opposite gender? · Muslim Marriage Accelerator

How to interact with opposite gender?

This question always comes to my mind.

how much interaction with opposite gender will not make me sinful.

like i work in hospital,i see in offices as colleagues people are joking around,but i feel it is sinful to joke with opposite gender.and i also see they sit in cafe and have lunch together.

and if someone shows sort of interest in you,and then how should i approach that?

i know wisdom would say that he should talk to my parents but parents involvement here would mean final decision.

should i have a basic conversation at public cafe or phone and see where things go or should i simply decline the request? as i feel its betrayal to my deen and to what Allah commands?

i don't know if i was able to convey my thoughts.

usually i am very reserved and try my best to avoid free mixing and joking around with opposite gender at work and try to keep quiet most of the time.

but still you have to talk sometimes and even get help in things.

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