Assalamu aleikum wa rahmatuAllah wa barakatuhu, dear sisters ❤️ If a potential asks about your family dynamics, how can you answer in a balanced way without revealing too much? In my case, I grew up in a home where there were frequent conflicts, and my father didn’t really treat my mother well. This has made me quite sensitive, and every time there is tension or disagreement, I start to cry (not just between my parents but also if my father says something unfair to me for example). At the same time, this have taught me what I DO NOT want in a marriage, and what kind of peace, respect, and communication I value deeply. How would you respond to such a question from a potential? I don’t want to go into too much detail or expose my family, and giving a negative image of my father

Salam girlies, I was thinking we could post our duas here and include each other in our duas on Arafa day. Make dua for me that Allah accepts all my duas with afiyah and barakah soon and that he mends me in a way that astonishes the people of the heavens and the earth that is not followed by another heartbreak, and that he recompenses me and open his sustainance gates for me with more than I cam comprehend and grants me succes in all my affairs and all that I have set out to do and started and my uni degree and career all of it with afiyah and barakah and ease and may he do the same for you and more ya rabb.💞 Drop your duas below so that I can add them to my list 🫂

Alsalam aleyikum sisters. I miss how active the community was and miss you girlies sm🫶...How are your journies going?

Assalamu aleikum 💗 To all the sisters here - I just want to remind you how truly beautiful this community is. What makes this space so special is that we don’t judge one another. We understand that every sister is on her own journey - growing, healing, learning, struggling, and trying to become closer to Allah in her own way. There are so many sisters out there who don’t even know that a community like this exists. There are 805 members here, and it is not by coincidence that you are among them. Allah chose for you to be here for a reason. Maybe Allah wants you to hear one reminder or one live session that completely changes your perspective. Maybe He wants you to gain knowledge and understanding before entering marriage, while many others step into it without knowing so much. Or maybe He placed you here because another sister needs you - your support, your kindness or your advice at a moment where she feels stuck, alone, or unheard. Allah’s plans are always greater than what we can see ourselves. So never underestimate the blessing of being surrounded by sisters who sincerely want good for one another and love each other fi sabilillah (for the sake of Allah). May Allah reward every single sister in this community for every reminder shared, every kind word, every sincere intention, and every moment of support given to another sister. May He place barakah in this sisterhood, increase us in sincerity and love, and gather us together in Jannatul Firdaus. Ameen. 🌷

Not every family pressure comes from a bad place. One sister shared, "My parents wanted what was best.. they just didn't know what I needed." You can love your parents deeply and still have boundaries. What is done with wisdom can honour both your heart and your family. How do you navigate family pressure with grace? 🤍