Asalaam aleikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh
How do we overcome trauma, especially childhood trauma, that stick in your mind and makes you say no to everyone, like when someone approach you for relationship I find there is discussion between my heart and my mind until I end up say no. I don't know what is it but I find myself becoming silent within the first weeks until I stop communicating with any man.
Sisters what are your advice on this issue