Most people only dare share the screenshots of the full room… The packed out lives… the sold out events… the comments going absolutely popity pop And look… I totes get it… those feel like the wins worth shouting about… 𝗕𝘂𝘁 𝗜 𝗰𝗲𝗹𝗲𝗯𝗿𝗮𝘁𝗲 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗲𝗺𝗽𝘁𝘆 𝗼𝗻𝗲𝘀 𝘁𝗼𝗼… 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗵𝗲𝗿𝗲'𝘀 𝘄𝗵𝘆… This morning nobody was live… literally not a single damn body… and I showed up anyway… hit record… brought everything I had… got proper giddy about it like the room was absolutely rammed… And here's the bit I want you to actually hear… That voice… the one that would've shown up a few years ago going fck this… nobody cares… you suck… go buy a coconut cake and sack the whole day off… It didn't come. Not even a little bit. 𝗖𝗢𝗭 𝗧𝗛𝗔𝗧 𝗩𝗢𝗜𝗖𝗘 𝗜𝗦 𝗟𝗬𝗜𝗡𝗚 And THAT is the shift worth talking about… because it didn't happen overnight… it happened because I kept showing up to the empty rooms anyway… until my brain finally got the memo that this isn't about who's watching… Because can we be dead honest for a sec obvs… everyone has had an empty room… or a hundred… everyone has gone live and sat there going… hello… anyone… 😂,and if you're sat there going not me… cough cough…BS 😂 𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝘀𝗲𝘀𝘀𝗶𝗼𝗻 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗿𝘂𝗻 𝘄𝗵𝗲𝗻 𝘁𝗵𝗿𝗲𝗲 𝗽𝗲𝗼𝗽𝗹𝗲 𝘀𝗵𝗼𝘄 𝘂𝗽… 𝗠𝗔𝗧𝗧𝗘𝗥𝗦. 𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗽𝗼𝘀𝘁 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝘄𝗿𝗶𝘁𝗲 𝘁𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝗴𝗲𝘁𝘀 𝘁𝘄𝗼 𝗹𝗶𝗸𝗲𝘀… 𝗠𝗔𝗧𝗧𝗘𝗥𝗦. 𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗹𝗶𝘃𝗲 𝗮𝘁 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗰𝗿𝗮𝗰𝗸 𝗼𝗳 𝗱𝗮𝘄𝗻 𝗳𝗿𝗼𝗺 𝗕𝗮𝗹𝗶 𝘄𝗵𝗲𝗻 𝗹𝗶𝘁𝗲𝗿𝗮𝗹𝗹𝘆 𝗻𝗼𝗯𝗼𝗱𝘆'𝘀 𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗿𝗲 𝘆𝗲𝘁… 𝗛𝗘𝗟𝗟𝗢… 𝗠𝗔𝗧𝗧𝗘𝗥𝗦. Because showing up fully when nobody's watching… That's not failure… That's character. That's SPINE. And THAT is what we're building in here… 𝗘𝗣𝗜𝗖 𝗛𝗨𝗠𝗔𝗡𝗦 who show up even when nowt's happening yet… who bring the full energy even when the room's empty… who do the work because the work matters… not because someone's keeping score… So yeah… I'm celebrating the empty rooms FCK YEP WOOP Because every single one is proof you're not doing it for the numbers… You're doing it because it TOTES matters a damn fricken lot… And that's everything Now tell me honestly… no performing… no sharing what makes ya look good… 𝗪𝗵𝗮𝘁'𝘀 𝗬𝗢𝗨𝗥 𝗮𝗰𝘁𝘂𝗮𝗹 𝗿𝗲𝘀𝗽𝗼𝗻𝘀𝗲 𝘄𝗵𝗲𝗻 𝗻𝗼𝗯𝗼𝗱𝘆 𝘀𝗵𝗼𝘄𝘀 𝘂𝗽… 𝘄𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝗱𝗼𝗲𝘀 𝘁𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝘃𝗼𝗶𝗰𝗲 𝘀𝗮𝘆… 𝗱𝗿𝗼𝗽 𝗶𝘁…

Ya tired aren't ya… Not like need a nap tired… proper tired… Tired of being in Skool communities where so many peeps are performing… saying the right things… using the right words… being just palatable enough to not upset anyone… Tired of getting advice that sounds dead good but feels nowt like you when ya try and use it… Tired of rooms where everybody's nodding along but hardly anyones actually saying the real real thing… And somewhere in the back of ya head there's this voice going… what if I just said it… what if I just showed up properly… what if I stopped filtering every single thought before it leaves my head… What if THAT was actually the thing… Not the next community… not the next course… not the next perfectly packaged programme… 𝗝𝘂𝘀𝘁… 𝘆𝗼𝘂… 𝗽𝗿𝗼𝗽𝗲𝗿𝗹𝘆… 𝘂𝗻𝗮𝗽𝗼𝗹𝗼𝗴𝗲𝘁𝗶𝗰𝗮𝗹𝗹𝘆… 𝗼𝘂𝘁 𝗹𝗼𝘂𝗱 𝗔𝗙… Coz here's what I've watched happen over and over again inside THE BACKROOM… People come in still half hiding… still half performing… still wondering if their thing is enough… And then summat shifts… Not overnight… not with a magic fairy formula… but gradually… quietly… and then all at once… They start saying the thing they used to delete… they start showing up in ways that feel dead good instead of soul draining sh*t… they start attracting people who actually get em… and repelling the ones who never did… They stop trying to sound like everyone else…pfffttt Because they finally found a room where being themselves was the whole dogdamn point 🐾 And their business starts to feel like THEIRS for the first time… 𝗧𝗵𝗮𝘁'𝘀 𝗧𝗛𝗘 𝗕𝗔𝗖𝗞𝗥𝗢𝗢𝗠… Not a perfectly packaged Skool community with a fancy framework… Just a proper room… full of proper epic humans… doing it their proper way… And if summat in ya just went… "fck… I think that might be me"… Right then $1 to get through the door… SEE YOU IN THE BACKROOM

The connection started in the DMs… 26th May 2023… Three years ago @Naomi Quinn walked into one of my lead magnets and oh my dog I am SO fricken grateful she did 😂🖤 And look… I don't just drop and pop the fck off… totes not me… we had conversations… maybe to date hundreds of thousands of 'em… real ones… the kind that actually matter… the kind that go way beyond business and into the actual messy beautiful stuff of life She jumped into the Messy Kinda Beautiful course at the time… yes life is still dat by the way 😂… then into the communities… the masterclasses… the yoga… the business stuff… the memberships… the masterminds… and then I got so bloomin' blessed to work with her one on one… She showed up… did the work… never half in half out… never performed… never pretended… just proper REAL every single time… and that's nowt short of rare And somewhere along the way we went from coach and student to summat way deeper than that Nobody tells ya that's gonna happen when ya start building something online Nobody tells ya that the person who found ya through a freebie… could end up bein' and epic human in ya daily everyday life She came to my Sacred AF Retreat here in Bali… and oh my fck… THAT is when I knew… this woman was gonna be in my life in a completely different way… We became awesome friends… the kind where you totes adore someone to the absolute ends of the earth and back… the kind where it stops bein' about business and starts bein' about lovin' who someone IS… every weird wonderful brilliant bit of 'em mwah I witnessed cats bein' born… seasons changin'… her welcomin' grandchildren into the world… her children and Lils growin' every single week… life doin' life in all its messy beautiful glory… And then she made the move TO BALI 🏝️ And now we are NEIGHBOURS… one bloomin' minute away… and I still cannot quite fricken believe it 😂 Cos three years ago I had absolutely no idea that showin' up real… buildin' summat real AF… not performin' or pretendin' or makin' it transactional… would lead to THIS

We just wrapped Session 1 of 𝗖𝗮𝘀𝗵 𝗶𝗻 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗖𝗼𝗺𝗺𝗲𝗻𝘁$ inside THE BACKROOM And OOOFFF? The room shifted. So I'm totes not keeping this in there. Some of this needs to land out here too. Here's what dropped. 💡 𝗜𝗠𝗣𝗢𝗦𝗧𝗘𝗥 𝗦𝗬𝗡𝗗𝗥𝗢𝗠𝗘 𝗗𝗥𝗘𝗦𝗦𝗘𝗗 𝗨𝗣 𝗔𝗦 𝗣𝗢𝗟𝗜𝗧𝗘𝗡𝗘𝗦𝗦. You're not holding back out of respect for them. You're holding back because some part of you doesn't believe you're worth hearing. That's the real thing. Not comments. YOU. 💡 𝗘𝗩𝗘𝗥𝗬 𝗧𝗜𝗠𝗘 𝗬𝗢𝗨 𝗦𝗖𝗥𝗢𝗟𝗟 𝗣𝗔𝗦𝗧 𝗪𝗜𝗧𝗛𝗢𝗨𝗧 𝗖𝗢𝗠𝗠𝗘𝗡𝗧𝗜𝗡𝗚 𝗬𝗢𝗨'𝗥𝗘 𝗪𝗜𝗥𝗜𝗡𝗚 𝗬𝗢𝗨𝗥 𝗕𝗥𝗔𝗜𝗡. You're literally telling yourself your thoughts aren't valuable enough to share. 10, 20, 30 times a day. Without even totes realising it. That's not just lost connection. That's your confidence taking a battering in slow motion. EVERY. SINGLE. DAMN. DAY. 💡 𝗬𝗢𝗨𝗥 𝗖𝗢𝗠𝗠𝗘𝗡𝗧𝗦 𝗦𝗘𝗖𝗧𝗜𝗢𝗡 𝗜𝗦 𝗧𝗛𝗘 𝗔𝗨𝗗𝗜𝗧𝗜𝗢𝗡. Your next client isn't waiting for your next post. They're ALREADY there. Reading how you respond to people. Deciding if you're their person. And you didn't even know. 😳 💡 𝗢𝗡𝗘 𝗪𝗘𝗟𝗟 𝗣𝗟𝗔𝗖𝗘𝗗 𝗖𝗢𝗠𝗠𝗘𝗡𝗧 𝗖𝗔𝗡 𝗗𝗢 𝗠𝗢𝗥𝗘 𝗧𝗛𝗔𝗡 𝗔 𝗪𝗘𝗘𝗞 𝗢𝗙 𝗣𝗢𝗦𝗧𝗦. I'll just leave that there. Let it land. Seriously. Let. It. Land. 🖤 💡 𝗔 𝗛𝗘𝗔𝗥𝗧𝗙𝗘𝗟𝗧 𝗖𝗢𝗠𝗠𝗘𝗡𝗧 𝗪𝗜𝗧𝗛 𝗔 𝗦𝗣𝗘𝗟𝗟𝗜𝗡𝗚 𝗠𝗜𝗦𝗧𝗔𝗞𝗘 𝗕𝗘𝗔𝗧𝗦 𝗔 𝗣𝗘𝗥𝗙𝗘𝗖𝗧 𝗖𝗢𝗠𝗠𝗘𝗡𝗧 𝗧𝗛𝗔𝗧 𝗡𝗘𝗩𝗘𝗥 𝗚𝗘𝗧𝗦 𝗦𝗘𝗡𝗧. I spell comments wrong every single time btw. C-O-M-M-E-N-T-S. Every. Fricken. Time. I stopped correcting it. Because real and messy and human will always ALWAYS beat perfect and unsent and safe. Hands down…Always. 🖤 𝗔𝗡𝗗 𝗧𝗛𝗔𝗧'𝗦 𝗝𝗨𝗦𝗧 𝗣𝗔𝗥𝗧 𝗢𝗙 𝗦𝗘𝗦𝗦𝗜𝗢𝗡 𝗢𝗡𝗘. 😳🔥 Session 2 we go even deeper AF. Confidence in the comments. Formulas that feel like YOU not some script you found on Pinterest. The one question technique that keeps every conversation alive. How to show up in other people's spaces without feeling like you're gate crashing. How to find your people in the comments before they even know they need you. This series is only getting better and I am OBSESSED with it. The Session 1 replay is still live inside The Backroom. For a few more days. Then it moves into the MYM Engine Room 4eva

“𝗙𝗖𝗞 𝗬𝗢𝗨, 𝗩𝗘𝗚𝗔𝗡𝗦.” Honestly How utterly DISGUSTING of you. How dare you speak up about animal abuse instead of shutting the fuck up and letting everyone stay comfy in their denial. How VILE of you to share slaughterhouse footage instead of helping people keep pretending their burger magically appeared wrapped in plastic from the happy meat fairy. How dare you show people the ACTUAL truth behind milk, eggs, meat, leather, wool, and animal testing. RUDE. How dare you remind people that “food” was once a living, breathing being who didn’t wanna die. Honestly, you vegans need to calm down and stop making people uncomfortable with your facts, compassion, ethics, and inconvenient truths. Like seriously come onnn… Keep your “please stop abusing animals” opinions to yourself, yeah? How dare you ruin somebody’s BBQ by mentioning the screaming, terror, blood, slaughter, and violence required to get what’s on the plate. So fricken selfish of you. And WOW… the audacity of thriving without meat while people are still screeching,“BUT WHERE DO YOU GET YOUR PROTEIN?!” Absolutely scandalous behaviour. And honestly? The worst part is you keep holding up this horrible little MIRROR. A mirror that forces people to confront the disconnect between: “I love animals 🥺” and “I pay for them to be abused and killed.” Which is honestly very inconsiderate of you vegans. People are just trying to enjoy their nuggets in peace without thinking about the fact they came from an actual animal. DamnSo preachy. Maybe next time just stay quiet, smile politely, and let people keep calling themselves compassionate while funding violence they’d cry over if they had to witness it in person. That would be MUCH less offensive. But hey… that’s not actually what people are angry at, is it? They’re angry because somewhere underneath the defensiveness, jokes, excuses, and outrage… They already KNOW. OOOFFF. Have a nice day ❤️ ✌️ 🐾 🥑 #voiceforthevoiceless #saythething #vegantruth #magneticmessaging #humanaf