If you saw a Bali retreat you really loved… what would ACTUALLY stop you from booking it right now? 9for October this Year or February 2027) We would love and appreciate hearing your honest thoughts If you picked one. I would LOVE to know the real reason behind it. Message me or drop it below. Thank you ❤️

K… I'm updating this… because I'm not the same woman who wrote it the first time… not even slightly… and if you're gonna be in my world… actually IN it… not just lurking like a little borasaurus in the bushes… you need the real version of me… not the polished up, bow tied nicely, sounds like she's got her sh*t together version… that version's boring and frankly she can do one. Totes. Here's something I've only just let myself fully say out loud…(ooofff when the dots connected) I've been doing the same work my entire life. Same work. Different rooms. Dance studio… getting people out of their heads and into their bodies… stop overthinking… FEEL it… own the space… be seen… woop… Yoga… helping people slow the noise down… reconnect to themselves… trust what was already sitting inside them… And now… business… Literally. The. Same. Thing. If I ever… 😂 Because the people I work with aren't stuck because they don't have anything to say… they're stuck because the way they're saying it isn't landing yet. That's it. That's the whole problem I've been solving my entire life just in different shoes. Epic AF when you finally clock it tbf. And I know what that feels like from the inside… properly know it… I spent years being quiet… timid as a mouse (so they say)… second guessing every single thing that came out of my mouth… watering myself down so much I didn't even know what my actual voice sounded like anymore… trying not to be too much… trying to fit… trying to make myself smaller so everyone else felt comfortable… Oh my dog… the amount of energy that took… It took me nearly HALF A CENTURY… half a bloody century… to go… nah. Done. DONE done. And that wasn't pretty… losing people… outgrowing things… sitting with the discomfort of becoming someone people hadn't seen before… including me… but on the other side of all of that? I finally sound like myself, phew… And I will never… EVER… go back to shrinking that. Not for anyone. Not even a tiny bit. Totes done with that era.

I’m going to share something… and this feels like the most vulnerable thing I’ve ever shared. This isn’t about business. This is about having a voice… I have never had a child. I have never, ever been pregnant. I’ve never been with a partner who has ever said, “we should have a child.” There was one time… and after one week, it was taken back. Like… no, we shouldn’t. There’s a part of me that is really stable in who I am… in my belief in myself. But if I’m really honest… there’s also this deep grief. Like somewhere in me… there’s a feeling that I’m unworthy… because I’ve never done what biologically, as a woman, maybe I was meant to do. And I know I’m not the only woman who feels this. I know there are millions of women who go through this. But right now… with perimenopause… it’s like it’s all getting louder. Every time my period comes. Every hot sweat. Every shift in my body. It’s like this constant reminder of… what was this all for? This biological clock that never actually gave me what it was meant to give me. And I want to be really clear… I love my life. I have my dog… Nami, she’s my daughter… she’s my world. I’m happy… she is everything to me ❤️ If I had a child, my life would look completely different… and I’m not sitting here saying I regret it. But two things can exist at the same time. Because there’s also this part of me that feels… not normal. A part that grieves. A part that wonders… when I die… what did I leave behind? And I think this is something I’ve brushed under the carpet for a long time. But I can feel it now… slowly coming up. I’m sharing this because I have a voice. We all have a voice. And I’m living life now… not to hide parts of myself… but to be a voice. I can’t deny that anymore… Let’s stop hiding the things we pretend aren’t there… it’s all valid…❤️

These are the NYEPE diaries from 2025 - watch this space for 2026, maybe... https://simplicityandsoul.com/blog/nyepi-bali-day-of-silence

Becareful with your answers now.... Only kidding, but name and pics are a must!!!! Lets add some cute fluffiness to this EXPERIMENT!