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zen of social skills
I needed this selfish push to push myself to improve my skills and bother people to learn social skills but now I can let go of that selfishness just go on pure giving
if you have any agenda, any pressure, any trace of heaviness — people will feel it. instantly. you can’t hide energy. the paradox is that you perform best when you stop performing. you connect best when you stop trying to connect. social mastery is zen: no outcome, no grasping, no self-consciousness — just total giving, total presence, total joy.
it’s not about what you say. it’s about the energy behind it. people don’t respond to words — they respond to vibe. if your energy is light, grounded, and giving, you could say almost anything and it lands. if it’s needy, heavy, or tense, even the perfect line fails. social mastery isn’t verbal, it’s energetic. the goal isn’t to say the right thing — it’s to be the right energy.
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zen of social skills
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