I was at a ridiculous party in Cape Town not too long ago
70–80% women.
Models - like super fkn hot ones - successful, nice, and pretty women.
BUT only a handful of men.
A year and a half ago, that world felt completely out of reach for me - like not even close
But here;s what I changed and you can do too..
I stopped trying to “pull” women.
and I started building real friendships with them.
Not fake friend-zoning lol
Not suppressed attraction.
Genuine abundance.
I built a powerful network that INCLUDED women.
because here’s what most guys don’t understand and what I did not for so long..
When you can walk into a room with +2 or +3 women who genuinely like you,
your perceived value goes through the roof.
Not because you’re flexing.
But because:
- Women trust men who other women trust
- Social proof compounds
- Scarcity disappears
this is all stuff that mike talks about.
see - most men can’t friend-zone because they’re outcome-attached
They don’t have the foresight to see the long game and the big swings / 10000x ROIs
But when you do?
pretty fkn quickly you'll get to parties like these..
if u have questions, Question away - would love to help!