Hi, I've been running private board game nights at my place for few months already. Recently, I decided to start making more female friends because it's good for me, and things are going well. I have gotten close to 2-3 girls who I kind of like, and they've agreed to join me in a small board game night with just us. There will be me and 2 girls who are confirmed, 1 doesn't know her schedule yet.
The 2 girls, I think, are pretty and attractive, whether I want to be in a relationship with them yet, I don't know. It's my first time doing this with intention, so I'd like to practice what I learned here and would like some tips:
- I want to build this into a social circle that I can bring them out as a group to other events.
- At the same time, I would like them to compete for my attention or be sexually interested in me, if it's not against what we should do.
- What should be my state of mind?
- How do I make them compete with each other or escalate?
- any other tips or things to keep in mind here?
- Any do and don't do rules?