i wonder how to kill the betaa in us when we face blue pill idialism especially from women in the work place by the music and how men interact whith them, when you be the one who aknowledge this, somtimes its very hard to let this false idialisations, and somme times even when i know that there is no one i buyback it , what is yours cases and how did you handel situations like that, and also how we can make our self the mental point of origine?