I recently bought a dating system and I’ve followed it properly. I’m confident with the platform now and I understand how it’s meant to work for dating.
One thing I’m struggling with is this I can do everything confidently on a private Instagram account, but not in the same way on a public one.
For example
- I’m comfortable posting social and party style photos on a private account
- I’m comfortable having photos with other women on a private account
- I feel more relaxed showing a social lifestyle there
On a public profile, I don’t feel comfortable posting pre selection photos with other women or party photos. That’s the main block.
What I’ve already done
- I’ve created a hot list of women around my area in London
- I’ve organised them into different collections
- I understand how to curate and improve my private profile
- I can post strong photos and build a solid private Instagram easily
The problem
- My profile is private, so I can’t directly DM/invite people to events yet
- I know what Michael teaches and I understand the process
- But everything I’m confident doing works better on a private account than a public one
My questions
- If I’m running a strong private Instagram, how exactly should I grow my audience the right way
- How do I build social proof and a solid reputation without relying on public pre selection photos
- If it’s too early to invite them to events, what kind of messages should I be sending instead
- How do I warm things up naturally and move towards real life social circles over time
I’d appreciate advice from anyone who has run a strong private profile successfully and knows how to bridge this gap.?