Just watched an awesome video from and wanted to share 3 lessons from it. 3 Lessons
- Sexual or flirty behavior can sometime mean “I want attention,” not “I want you”
Touching, flirting, or online chatting can be validation-seeking with zero intent to follow through.
2. Attraction grows when validation isn’t given freely
When attention has to be earned through effort, consistency, or sacrifice, it carries real value. Instant validation kills polarity.
3. Many dating environments are fantasy spaces, not reality-seeking spaces
Clubs, stripping, and even online flirting are often about playing roles. Trying to force seriousness too early breaks the fantasy and pushes people away.
Have you also experienced women stopping showing interest once you have given them attention?