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I will open VIP PERSONAL for MAY/JUNE for FIVE MEMBERS. You will get LIVE classes with me: ☑️ DEEP DIVE: 6 Deep Dives into our current VIP lessons with me. Each class is between 3 and 4 hours. ☑️ MASTERY: 6 Mastery classes where we cover all VIP extras: LTA, EVC quiz, EVC sentences, BQ, MyPIRF and VOWEL FOUL. We study these before anyone else. Each class is 2+ hours. ☑️ ROLE PLAY: 8 LIVE sessions where we go over YOUR performance of the VIP assignments. (You only need to attend 4--we have one schedule especially for Europe/Africa/Middle East, another schedule especially for Asia/Oceania/the Americas) I will guide you directly and personally build your English skills properly. ANY questions and problems you have, I will personally take care of them. 40 hours of personalized coaching with me. COST: Option A: 2 months (May/June) with me + ten more months of either DDM VIP or PIRF VIP for $1250. Option B: 2 months (May/June) with me + ten more months of both DDM VIP and PIRF VIP for $2000. DDM VIP without me is $980/year PIRF VIP without me is $980/year TWO months WITH me will set you on the fast track to English listening and speaking Mastery. FIRST LIVE call is MAY 5. The schedule Sign up in the CLASSROOM. The price is set to $1250, if you want the $2000 option, just let Coach @Gulya Karimova or @Constance Tuballes or me @Shane Peterson know! If you have questions, ask below. Current VIP members can join for $500. We also have ALIPAY and WesternUnion options and if you are in Russia, we can help you, too. Together...Let's Master English! Coach Shane

📖 Book Don't Sweat the Small Stuff … and It's All Small Stuff by Richard Carlson, PhD. Synopsis: Simple ways to keep little things from taking over your life. The book consists of 100 short articles -- we'll go through them week by week. This week’s # 28: Seek First to Understand Here's what you need to do: 1. Read it yourself, take time to reflect on it and make notes. 2. Join the live reading on Wednesday. We'll read and listen to the article together, line by line. 3. Share your thoughts. Keep your answer under 4 minutes. Be clear, and focus on expressing your ideas about the topic to practice real English speaking. No debates, just sharing thoughts. ***** This is adopted from one of Stephen Covey's "Seven Habits of Highly Effective People." Using this strategy is a shortcut to becoming a more content person (and you'll probably become more effective too). Essentially, "seek first to understand" implies that you become more interested in understanding others and less in having other people understand you. It means mastering the idea that if you want quality, fulfilling communication that is nourishing to you and others, understanding others must come first. When you understand where people are coming from, what they are trying to say, what's important to them, and so forth, being understood flows naturally; it falls into place with virtually no effort. When you reverse this process, however (which is what most of us do most of the time), you are putting the cart before the horse. When you try to be understood before you understand, the effort you exert will be felt by you and the person or people you are trying to reach. Communication will break down, and you may end up with a battle of two egos. I was working with a couple who had spent the first ten years of their marriage frustrated, arguing about their finances. He couldn't understand why she wanted to save every penny they earned, and she couldn't understand why he was a spendthrift. Any rationale on either position had been lost in their joint frustration. While many problems are more complex than this couple's, their solutions were relatively simple. Neither person felt understood. They needed to learn to stop interrupting each other and to listen carefully. Rather than defending their own positions, each needed to seek first to understand. This is precisely what I got them to do. He learned that she was saving to avoid her parents' financial disasters. Essentially, she was frightened of being broke. She learned that he felt embarrassed that he wasn't able to "take care of her" as well as his father did his mother. Essentially, he wanted her to be proud of him. As each learned to understand the other, their frustration with each other was replaced by compassion. Today, they have a nice balance between spending and saving.