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Day 21: RYV Challenge is happening in 3 days
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ready for your next breakthrough? (free breathwork inside!)
Your next breakthrough is around “expression” The more you express yourself, the more you embrace the unknown and put out the energy of the real you If you feel blocked or stuck in your life right now… this may be the key to releasing the energy stored inside the body I know for me for years I held back expressing the real me I would put off uncomfortable conversations, I would not express how I felt… I would put off setting boundaries, and I would “wait until the time felt right” Even back in 2017 before I committed to daily youtube videos… I was holding back the real me and BEING who I learned to be Someone who tolerated a job I didn’t like and managers who reminded me of the childhood dynamic of control growing up The fear around expression for me was being afraid to disappoint people Was being judged or causing other people to feel tension What I realized for myself was this… Whether I made the choice to EXPRESS the real me or not… Either way… there is tension! Tension is either inside of me hidden and unexpressed… I’d feel frustrated with a job I hated and secretly resented my life I’d hold myself back from expressing the real me and resent myself or others for my situation Or if I EXPRESSED… There may be tension because that is not familiar and what if others feel tension due to me expressing the real me Prior to expressing I’d feel all sorts of ways in my body Before expressing how I felt to someone… putting out my first piece of content, etc TENSION is a part of the process! The key is choosing to express the real you because its who you choose to be! It is liberating to express it so it also leaves your body You will feel more free, more self accepting and have respect for yourself The key will be knowing that it is not your job to control how people respond to you Let your expression be the filter to which you attract the people who resonate with the real you and the repellant to those that don’t In what ways can you express yourself?
ready for your next breakthrough? (free breathwork inside!)
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we are the High Vibe Tribe dedicated to elevating our vibration and expanding our consciousness. We stand for healing and going into our inner work to transform from the inside out. We live by the values of courage, vulnerability, and presence and this community is focused on helping us all to grow into our most authentic selves. Freedom is the intention and as we meditate, heal and step into our power... we let go of the old and wire in a new way of being. We understand that our outer reality is a refection of our inner reality and rather than blame the outside or try to fix it, we look at ourselves and let go of parts of ourselves attached to the beliefs, patterns and past "familiar" energies keeping us locked in the past. When you go through a spiritual awakening many feel like the lone wolves in their family. This community is a way to connect with other people like you… dedicated to healing the past, spiritual growth, and creating their dream life. This is not about surface level change or thinking better thoughts… it’s about doing the inner work, looking at subconscious parts most people avoid (the shadow) and creating inside out transformation. There are some Rules for this community to keep it a safe space… 1. Absolutely no selling or promoting other groups/events. This includes directing messaging other members. Members who break this rule will be banned from the group.  2. Posts should either add value and be well thought out. Lets create a high vibe, supportive community section  3. No posting “who else lives in New York?” Etc these will be deleted as if everyone posted them the group will be flooded with it. if you want to learn how to see who lives in your city I share in the video below 4. Be supportive and accepting of other people. Like posts, support other people and encourage them. 
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What is a trauma bond exactly, and how is it bad? When I see a healthy person, how do I expect them to understand the way I am, certain things that are difficult for me, certain things i struggle with, I have been working since last 3 years, there have been breakthroughs but somethings just too difficult to change. Healthy people it's like, They got lucky with good parents and environment and household which is not filled with tensions but is safe, where certains parts of them are not discouraged, or called bad or said and driving the wound of "there's something wrong with them" into them. They show up differently in life, they interact differently with people choose relationship differently, cause it fine for them to choose it that way. How is somebody who got trauma even pair with somebody who doesn't? What? Pls don't tell me to become healthy, you can be more healthier more whole on your own, more secure, but wounds that I have stayed, unless contradictory experience happens they won't go. How would you even interact with someone who lives life on a different plane. They don't go home, thinking they messed up here, or notice the issue that came up somewhere in the day that has its roots in the past, the self belief of playing small, or not taking up space. And the fact that working on all the issues is a month after month task and with no necessary guarantee, sometimes it does sometimes it doesn't, how long do I plan to keep going doing this? As I see people enjoy their lifes.?
Day 1 Homework
A identity that I have absorbed in the past that I can accept inside of myself is the anxious attachment and the fixer. I would be more authentic with who I truly am and how I truly feel. I also would be more in flow and just accepting in my life with situations and my relationships in my life without that fixer and anxious attachment identity I absorbed in the past. The biggest insight from this day one is that I can’t break the pattern with the pattern. I realized I was doing all these meditations and inner work to “fix” my situation with my relationship. “ if I could just fix my nervous system and completely trust and not feel all these big emotions of all this fear in me then I will get to connect with him again in the way I want us to go back to so badly” But I realized I’m using my pattern to fix the pattern. I really just realized I’m avoiding feeling that love in my relationship going away. The feeling my inner child felt when mom’s emotional availability went away. That feeling is really what I’m not allowing myself to feel. I realized it’s really okay and I’m accepting that if my current partner doesn’t love me anymore one day, it’s okay and I can accept that. And feel into that completely, I don’t have to control who aligns in my life and who doesn’t. And really being present with that pattern of fixing and controlling, because that’s that my inner child trying to get her needs met and just accepting that pattern and just being present with her and how she feels.
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This Week I’m Paying Attention to Energy
I’ve been noticing how different things affect my energy Some things drain me without me realizing it immediately Others actually bring me back to myself So this week I’m focusing more on that awareness Not judging it… just noticing it. Because energy seems to be something we ignore too often What usually drains or restores your energy?
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