Have you ever had an interview where you didn't get the job? If not... you're an outlier!
There are two options when you attend an interview:
- Act like you think you are supposed to, or
- Be yourself
There are two outcomes
- You get the job, or
- You don't get the job
That creates four scenarios
a - Act, don't get the job
b - Act, get the job
c - Be yourself, don't get the job
d - Be yourself, get the job
Scenario A - you've put on an act and at the end of it you didn't get the job. Now you're left wondering... if I had just been myself would I have got the job? Regret!
Scenario B - you've put on an act and at the end of it you get the job. What do you do now? Keep up the act for the first 6 months, burning yourself out? Drop the act, and get found out on day 1? Regret!
Scenario C - you've been yourself and you didn't get the job. Ok, not the outcome you wanted, but at least you know they've made a decision based on the real you, and you can accept that. No Regret!
Scenario D - you've been yourself and you get the job! Amazing! You know that you earned it, you know that they like you, you know that you're going to fit in. No Regret - celebration!