INTENTION…
Duh. Hello. It's kinda everything. 😂
And look here… I'm not gonna sit here and be all woo woo woo about it… this isn't a manifestation chat… this is proper real juicy talk about why some people build thriving communities and others build well lets call em’ ghost towns…
Becoz here's what I see happening a LOT…
People join Skool spaces… or start posting… or show up in comments… and the intention behind it is hmmm basically…
how do I get more members… how do I get more engagement… how do I get more money…
And yes yes I get it… obvs… those things matter big time fosho… but when THAT is the starting point…
Well peeps feel it.
Not consciously maybe… but they feel it… that slight ick of someone showing up in your comments and it feeling a bit… off… a bit… salesy… a bit… hmmm what do they actually want here…
U know that feeling right… 😬 that one…
Now compare that to someone who shows up going…
how can I actually add something here… what does this person actually need… what do I really think about this…how would I talk face to face just like a human having a convo with another human…
Completely different energy. Completely different result. WOOP
𝗛𝗘𝗥𝗘'𝗦 𝗧𝗛𝗘 𝗣𝗦𝗬𝗖𝗛𝗢𝗟𝗢𝗚𝗬 𝗕𝗜𝗧… 𝗼𝗯𝘃𝘀… 🧠
Us humans are wired to detect inauthenticity… like properly wired… we've been reading other people's intentions since we were living in caves trying to figure out who was friend and who was foe…
So when someone shows up with a hidden agenda… even if they're saying all the right words… something in us goes…
hmm… something's a bit kinda off here…we defo ain’t dumb
And we don't always know WHY we feel it… we just do…
Which is why copy pasted comments feel icky AF… why fake engagement feels hollow AF… why that person who comments great post on literally everything gives u the creeps a bit… 😂
𝗔𝗡𝗗 𝗛𝗘𝗥𝗘'𝗦 𝗪𝗛𝗘𝗥𝗘 𝗜𝗧 𝗚𝗘𝗧𝗦 𝗝𝗨𝗜𝗖𝗘𝗥…
Intention doesn't just affect how others receive u…
It affects how U show up…
When ur intention is totes genuine… when u actually care about the human on the other end… when u're showing up because u want to add something not take something…
U write differently. U comment differently. U engage differently.
The words come easier. The connection happens faster. The results follow naturally.
Because u're not performing… u're just… being…well you a badass heart led HUMAN
And THAT is MAGNETIC in a way that no strategy or framework can replicate… duh… 😂
𝗦𝗢 𝗛𝗘𝗥𝗘'𝗦 𝗧𝗛𝗘 𝗔𝗖𝗧𝗨𝗔𝗟 𝗣𝗥𝗔𝗖𝗧𝗜𝗖𝗔𝗟 𝗦𝗧𝗨𝗙𝗙 𝗣𝗔𝗥𝗧…
Before u comment on someone's post… before u drop into someone's community… before u post something yourself…
Ask urself honestly…
🥑 Am I doing this to get something… or to give something…
🥑 Am I showing up here because I genuinely have something to add… or because I want to be seen…
🥑 If nothing came from this… no follows… no clicks… no sales… would I still do it…
And look… wanting things from ur business is totes fine… obvs… duh… we all do… gimmie the clients and the cha ching… woop… 😂
But the intention behind each individual action… each comment… each post… each conversation…
That's where the magic either happens or it doesn't…
Intention is the thing u cannot fake long term.
And the good news… when ur intention is right… everything else gets a whole lot easier…
Try it this week… just shift the question from what can I get from this to what can I add here…
And watch what happens…
Drop below… hand on heart… what's ur usual intention when u show up in comments… getting or giving… let's be real…
Mimi x x x
and no… there's no link at the bottom of this one… no offer… no CTA… just a convo in the commnets… because sometimes that's exactly my point…
𝗪𝗢𝗢𝗣!!!
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