Sisters during an EID festival where I live, a brother approached me and stated he was seeking marriage. We exchanged contact information, we met at the masjid the next day and he took me to dinner after to discuss a Wali, intentions, etc. Things took an EXTREME turn as I thought it was going well it became terrible. We met up again for tacos, to discuss him meeting my father (wali), a timeline, etc. He had me pay for the meal, stated that leaders deserve to get there meals paid for and then stated that he felt me and him weren't compatible. He presented me with a list and told me all my rights are going to be taken away and said that he is in charge. The list consisted of things such as a curfew, how he wanted me to cover, etc. a Wali wasn't even involved at this point. He then texted me round 12am and asked to come to my house and dm'ed me on instagram asking if I wanted to get "folded like a pretzel." PLEASE HELP! This is the continuous experiences I am having with brothers where I am meeting in places surrounded by and related to religion (EID festival, masjid fundraiser, masjid volunteering) and every time they seem to sneak sex in the equation. I really feel like giving up. I feel I have gone about things properly, set boundaries, etc. but they continue to test boundaries.

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Assalamu alaikum my dear sisters (my brain is still not fully used to refering to women as 'sisters' but i love that i get to do that)! Something came up for me that I feel compelled to share here because I feel like a lot of us could relate to it. How often in your life have you felt like, eh, i thought the thought but who wants to hear my idea/ feeling/ experience. i'll just listen to what they are saying and get on with my day. or.. im just a number in this big community. or.. my opinions are not that valuable. or my experience is so lame. etc. In so many cultures we are taught something to the effect of 'women should be seen not heard.' and it got me thinking- they ONLY power shaytan has is his waswas. words. just words. like he's so weak. but WE KNOW how powerful those waswas can be. that's the power of words ladies!! 🤯 YOURS included! so if you ever feel like there is no point in saying the thing- SAY the thing. You never know who needs to hear it! the uplifting comment, the solidarity, the 'i relate so much'. whatever it is. i love the welcoming safe sisterhood we have here under the wings of the MM team for that very reason ❤️ Something you say or share may hit home for another sister, and something someone says may do the same for you. it may not feel like a lot to you, but it may mean A LOT to someone else. I hope you are all having a blessed Jummah whever you are. lets fill our hears, and minds and hearts with positive words and thoughts, and the rememberance of Allah swt. (also why dikr is so powerful!!). Peace and blessings on our beloved prophet Mohammed SAW on this blessed day, and every day. 🥰