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Update 3 and it finally good news
Surgery Done, 24 hours minimum hospital supervision now, but more like 48 needed. I have a small drain in the area of my groin to remove any fluid that may build up, they also want to keep an eye on my pain levels and any reactions I might have, plus Still slightly medicated after the surgery 😷 Thankyou all for the prayers, thoughts and well wishes. You are all such phenomenal men within these groups.
Update 3 and it finally good news
8 likes • Apr 6
Glad to hear you're on the mend!
The Authority of A Gentleman
Good afternoon gentlemen, One of the hardest aspects of being gentlemen is the ability to gain and maintain authority. For some it can come easily, and for others it seems like a daunting task. Whether it’s comes easily or with hesitation, there are some pointers to not just help you understand, gain and maintain authority as a gentleman. Most people think authority comes from titles, status, or power, but the truth is simpler and most people miss it. Authority begins the moment you control how you show up; not louder, not aggressive, just calm,clear, and certain. Here are some pointers that may help you. 1. Stop over explaining yourself speak clearly, then pause. 2.Slow down your speech; remain calm, pacing signals control. 1. Hold eye contact slightly longer when engaging in initial conversation, and throughout the conversation. 2. Remove unnecessary apologies don’t shrink yourself with excuses. No can be a sentence when asked a question. 3. Be comfortable with silence; silence is not weakness but control, you can control to pace and flow of a conversation. 4. Speak with intention; authority is not given; it is felt, people follow certainty not noise.
7 likes • Apr 6
Well said
Harrington...
Looking to purchase a Harrington jacket and I'm looking for color suggestions. Trying to decide between Navy and Khaki...then Olive caught my eye. My day-to-day wardrobe tends to be jeans of various colors (light and dark blues, khaki, green, gray, etc.) and lighter colored shirts. I'm in a casual environment with occasional out-of-the office meetings. I'm open to suggestions...
2 likes • Mar 31
Thanks for the comments so far, they help. Random thought... What does Olive NOT pair with in the color palette?
1 like • Apr 1
@Chad Smith ...thank you for the insight my friend!
Introduction
Gentlemen 🫱🏼‍🫲🏽 New here. Originally from Australia, now based in the US. Big believer that when your body’s taken care of, clothes just sit better. Been dialling in fit and structure a lot more lately, appreciating the detail side of things. Good to be in a room of men who care about self-respect and presentation
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1 like • Feb 9
Welcome!
What an unexpected honor
I just noticed that I have reached the summit of RMRS! I have reached level 9. it has truly been an honor and a privilege to not only be around such a great group of ladies and gentlemen, but to learn and grow in this community. I hope that I input as much as I have received from this community. The mere fact that I have made it to this level with such great men of character and to see the once that are coming up as well if truly inspiring in this world that we live in showing that that true gentlemen still do exist. I hope that I can continue to grow and learn from all of you, and I hope that I can retune the favor by passing on the knowledge and experience I gain from all of you to others as well. Again thakn you all for your support.
5 likes • Feb 7
Congratulations my friend.
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John Clouse
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@john-clouse-4215
Retired military / Emergency and Disaster response consultant. I'm not young anymore but I'm trying not to look old and frumpy either.

Active 34d ago
Joined Jun 7, 2025
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