Ep 10 IRL (in real life) Personal Brand
This week we shifted focus from building brand online to building brand in real life. In-person interactions still matter a lot. Whether you’re at a networking event, meeting a client, or just having a conversation at a café… how you make people feel is everything. Here’s what we covered: IRL Brand = Conversation Skills We explored how to: - Break surface-level convos fast (ditch “what do you do?”) - Ask questions that create connection — e.g.→ “Why do you do what you do?”→ “What are you working on that excites you?”→ “What do you want to be known for?” - Spot who isn’t worth your time (and move on) Reverse Charisma The goal isn’t to be the most interesting person in the room, it’s to make others feel like they are. Reverse charisma = Being deeply curious→ Listening without waiting to speak→ Drawing people out so they shine These are power moves in both brand-building and life. Conversation Tactics Shared - Tell me, Explain, Describe, Show — from Hayley’s police training - Labeling: “It feels like you... So what im hearing is” — from Chris Voss-style negotiation - Filler word awareness + using silence as a tool - Use tonality and pacing to build trust, tension, and energy in conversation - Play to your strengths — humour, empathy, calmness, directness Your Task In your next client or non-familiar interaction, lead the conversation to a meaningful topic without forcing it. Bonus points if you: - Make them feel like the most interesting person in the room - Report back on how you got there Also a reminder to post your wins, challenges, insights, and content inside the Skool group. Templates, new habits, or even failed experiments… we want to hear it. More engagement = more value for everyone. Luke