This is something I have tried for years and I am sharing it with you guys today, because it GAVE me the results I ALWAYS NEEDED ! If you are facing issues with motivation, consistency or that fire ? This is THE PRINCIPLE, YOU NEED TO UNDERSTAND. When I started out in the process of self-actualisation, In the beginning just like most, Because I had a lot of things to improve on!!! OVERWHELMED, naturally I needed it quicker and faster. So, I focused on doing a lot of things at once, In that process, I really felt burdened and fatigued quickly too. When we are starting out, we obviously don’t know the principles that, RULE THIS WORLD !!! Believe me, this is the KING OF ALL ! When implemented correctly, THIS PRINCIPLES WILL TAKE YOU TO PLACES YOU WANT TO GO ! At the same time, when you are not aware of it, THIS WILL LEAD YOU TO THE DARKEST PLACES !!! THE NAME : SECOND ORDER CONSEQUENCES. We are all naturally, inclined to think only upto FIRST ORDER CONSEQUENCE. This is WHY we RANDOMLY DO ANYTHING WE THINK IS RIGHT, However, when we TRULY understand SECOND ORDER CONSEQUENCES, EVERYTHING CHANGES !!! The best part, THAT IS JUST THE BEGINNING! So, to a very few who read, I am just curious to know how many of you are already aware of this ? Care to share and let me know if you have consciously or subconsciously implemented this ? Has this helped you ? Is there anything else you would recommend for me ? Thank you in advance

Does anyone here make female friends that they go out with at least semi-reguarly? How did you make them you friend, what did the onboarding process look like, where you slowly got more and more comfortable together. Bonus points if the girl was actually hot because it's significantly easier to make friends with a girl you vastly outrank in looks or social status. (As in, if the girl is a loser, it's easier to make friends with her then if she's hot popular blonde socialite type) Not expected many responses to this post because most of everyone in here are rookies to this stuff. Expecting tumbleweeds...