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Last Year’s Wins 🎉 This Year’s Focus 🎯
Gents, before we move too far into 2026, I want you to pause and look back intentionally. 1ïžâƒŁ Last Year Wins What’s 1–3 wins from last year you’re proud of? Doesn’t have to be massive. Progress counts — consistency, discipline, better decisions. Style upgrade you stuck with? A fragrance you finally made your signature? A watch milestone, collection refinement, or learning moment? A habit you strengthened, a distraction you cut, or a standard you raised 2ïžâƒŁ This Year’s Focus What’s 1–2 goals you’re deliberately committing to this year - not wishing for, but committing to? Could be... Sharpening your personal style as a form of self-respect Building a tighter, more intentional fragrance rotation Becoming more educated, patient, and disciplined with watches Showing up with more consistency - physically, mentally, and professionally Raising your standards in how you present yourself to the world Drop your wins and your focus below. Let’s build on what worked. And cut what didn’t!
Last Year’s Wins 🎉 This Year’s Focus 🎯
3 likes ‱ Jan 17
Greetings gentlemen. For the past year i've dealt with a few issues and problematics which have set me back from several points of view and brought me down psychologically speaking, but i'm slowly picking myself up so i can pull myself together. The woman, i was in a relationship with for approximately 4 years, and i broke up, which i consider a win since we couldn't find middle wi ound to make it work and it was probably affecting us both in a negative way. I started reading more and more often which brings peace of mind aside from being a source for learning, which could probably count as another win. For the goals i would fit in: Losing some weight; i already lost 2kg in one month and a half so also counts as a small win. And finding a stable job, so i could obtain the necessary resources to reach a better version of myself; not easy here but i'm feeling optimistic. All said, i'm glad to see so much motivation im the comments and so many of you gentlemen doing well for yourselves. Good luck to each and every one of you in your endeavors!
New dog.
Brought a goldendoodle home today. An acquaintance of my wife had her and needed to rehome her, so we took her in. She's three and half years old, fully house trained, and well behaved. So she rode 4 hours back home in the truck with me. She seems to really like our family, (even all my loud crazy kids) and this feels like a fun new chapter for us. I'm sure you'll be seeing more of her in future posts.
New dog.
1 like ‱ Jan 9
What a lovely dog! Enjoy yourselves!
Advice request
Greetings gentlemen! I don't usually post pictures because there's still much i need to learn before feeling comfortable with putting together personalized outfits, but there's no way to ask for an opinion without pictures. Recently i came across this suit and i'm trying to decide whether to keep it or not. The trousers fit well, yet the jacket is a size larger for my body shape. Should i keep it and have the jacket adjusted, or should i sell it? Aside from that i would apprecaite any advice or constructive feedback that would help me learn and define my style. Thank you in advance, Gabriel.
Advice request
1 like ‱ Nov '25
@Raymond Reeves thank you. The jacket shoulders are about 2-3cm larger than mine, which, i think, is what makes the sleeves seem longer. Do you think it's easily adjustable?
1 like ‱ Nov '25
@Trung Lam thank you! I believe the excessive sleeve length to be caused by the jacket shoulders being a bit larger than mine. I'm taking note of your advice concerning the trousers and see what i can do about it. đŸ€˜đŸ˜Ž
OOTD - Wednesday 5 November
Another cooler Spring day means I can wear pretty much any suit I want. I decided to give my Black Tie and Pocket Square a run and build an outfit around them. So a little fun with this out fit, which consist of; M.J. Bale Aston suit in Charcoal with a Navy Pinstripe Charles Tyrwhitt Royal Oxford Windowpane Check Shirt in Steel Blue TrendHim Black Tie and Pocket Square Dune London Sheet Embossed Oxford in Black Stanton Fedora in Charcoal with Black band Footsie Pink Flamingo socks Anson Leather Strap in Black on a Classic Silver buckle SOTD - 2 Sprays of Red Tobacco on centre chest 4 sprays Versace Eros Parfum (wide on chest and wrists) WOTD - Tudor Royal 41
OOTD - Wednesday 5 November
9 likes ‱ Nov '25
For a moment i had the impression i was looking at Raymond Redington. It's a compliment.
🍂 September Theme: Fall Style Mastery 🍂
Gentlemen, Fall is here—and this is one of the best seasons for men’s style. You’ve got cooler weather, which means you can finally layer without sweating through your shirt. You’ve got rich textures like tweed, flannel, and corduroy that add depth to your outfits. And you’ve got boots—arguably the most masculine footwear a man can own. This month we’re focusing on one thing: mastering Fall style. Here’s where I want you to dial in: 1. Layering without bulk – Jackets, sweaters, shirts. Done right, you look sharp. Done wrong, you look sloppy. 2. The right pair of boots – Not sneakers, not loafers. Boots. They make a statement. 3. Seasonal colors & fabrics – Earth tones, heavier weaves, and clothes that look like they belong in Fall—not Summer leftovers. 4. Smart upgrades – A scarf, a better jacket, maybe just swapping out those worn-out shoes. Small changes, big impact. 👉 Your action: Share one Fall upgrade you’re making this month. It can be a piece of clothing, a style habit, or even just committing to putting more effort into your look. This theme is going to guide our discussions, tips, and challenges all September long. Let’s make sure when October rolls in, you’re not just “dressed for the weather”—you’re leading with style.
🍂 September Theme: Fall Style Mastery 🍂
7 likes ‱ Sep '25
Colder seasons, by far my favorites for several reasons, and one of those is long clothing and all the possibilities it offers.
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I. Gabriel Gabor
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Looking for ideas, opinions and advice to level up my style.

Active 69d ago
Joined Jul 2, 2024
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