I can't believe it's been almost 5 months since I had my son feels like I just held him for the first time in the hospital room yesterday. It's been a crazy five months since he was brought into this world I can't wait to see him grow up even though I want him to stay little forever but won't happen since they don't stay little for long.

I usually don't ask for prayers but if anyone can please pray for my family I lost everything in a house fire earlier today and now I'm heading to a shelter for safety I'm so grateful that everyone is ok and that we got out safe and unharmed but we are all very shooken up since we just moved to this new house 3 days ago not getting into full details on how or who caused the fire. I'm gonna try my hardest-best to stay positive and be brave through all this, this is the reason why I haven't been posting that much since we have no where to go or anything besides the shelter we are heading to for as long as they will let us stay! Will try my best to post if I can for updates but I promise I will be back active and more stronger than I am today. Blessings to all for a blessing week and weekend. Again I'm so sorry for this I will start posting and supporting again when I am able to when things are settled and if I'm able to find a new place to live.

Change starts by taking ownership. No more excuses or waiting for others to act. You have the power to transform your life, and it begins with you. Taking responsibility means you stop being a victim of your circumstances.

My top 5, 1. Spread kindness. 2. Learn new things. 3. Help others when they need it. 4. Coming out of my shell and meet new people. 5. Talk louder so others can hear and understand what I'm saying.

I've been here for a minute but realized I haven't introduced myself, my name is lillian but i go by lily i am 29 yrs old. I'm originally from elpaso Texas but moved to south Carolina In 2021. I'm a fur mama of 3 I have one teacup mix and two Boston terrors. I'm a mom of 4 I have two boys and two angel girls that I lost 2 almost three years ago. My next big goal is to meet new people and learn new things, one thing I'm excited to learn is how to connect with new people and get to know them better since I'm a quiet,shy person always have been so trying to help others connect with others and come out of their shell like I am! Ever since I joined this I've overcome so many challeges that I thought I would never get past. Learning can be a good thing no matter what you want to learn about that you never knew before. Asking questions is what I'm trying to work on since I've always struggled with asking questions or if I need help I never really wanted to ask cause I was nervous to but as I've gotten more used to this I've overcome so many struggles and challenges when Asking questions if I wanted to answer the question that I was being asked to answer!