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Starting a Website
Hello all!!! Just wanted to ask, seems to be a lot of brothers in sales here. I’m an aspiring copywriter, and I was just wondering how y’all would go about making a website??
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Use Squarespace, unless you're niched in something that requires a specific platform, squarespace is so easy to use and offers many templates and automated features. I made www.dylthekillsmith.com with no website experience or coding experience. (easier said than done I must admit)
I did my first event, got 4 girls to go out with me for sushi
Hey everyone. So I've been in this group since December and I followed the MOA steps from 1 to 3. Then last Thursday I started sending invites for my first event which I decided to be a sushi Tuesday. Sending the invites didn't go too smoothly as you can see in my previous post: https://www.skool.com/men-of-action-free/big-failure-sending-invites-for-first-event-thanks-to-instagram In total I ended up sending 26 invitations. I got 4 yeses and 4 maybes. And then only 1 of the yeses came and 2 of the maybes, out of which one brought a friend, so 4 girls in total. I don't know if those numbers are good but all things considered I'm pretty proud of doing something I had never done before. The 4 girls were 1 girl from my university classes, other 2 that I met from cold approach, and a friend of one of those. Now as for the event specifically: it was very interesting. As soon as they started arriving and we started talking I realised that I need to work hard on my social skills. There were a lot of awkward silences. I'm not that charismatic and definitely not funny. I just tried to make conversations by asking random questions. They answered and then the conversation died again. However they all seemed to like me because every time I talked they payed attention and smiled. Two of them exchanged contacts on their own initiative which makes me happy to have caused that connection. We stayed there for two hours and then everyone went on their way. Afterwards I received text from two of the girls saying they had fun. And I posted a story (the attached video). I can see now why you guys like this. I definitely want to keep doing this and get better at it. If anyone has any suggestions of books or anything about improving conversational skills to entertain groups of girls let me know. Any other opinion is also appreciated.
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Tip of the hat to ya cowboy
Anterior Mid-Cingulate Cortex - Brain discovery that reinforces doing what you HATE, to cultivate Willpower
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nDLb8_wgX50 Gents, this podcast I encourage to listen to in it's entirety, however the post's title begins discussed around 46:00. Everyone needs to hear this. Love to hear thoughts and insights from the MOA group. Godspeed
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Haters, or am I in the wrong?
I am hearing from a business partner that multiple people in his social AND business circle (all adults, all much older than me) are complaining that I look like a "douchebag" on IG. This obviously wouldn't bother me except for the fact that in the business social circle, my reputation means something, and to lose it would potentially cost me valuable connections- my issue is that there were no specifics mentioned and it was behind my back from people who wouldn't necessarily be bold enough to mention it to my face. Other then risqué (but not politically incorrect/racist/conspiracy or even remotely political) memes on my story, and a caption joking about eviction court, I'm not sure that anything I did is objectively offensive. For reference, this is my IG: https://instagram.com/eli_hollingsworth_?igshid=MjEwN2IyYWYwYw== Is there something that the more experienced guys would recommend changing?
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1 like • May '23
I can tell you've put a lot of work into the cohesion of your page, looks nice to me bro. Objectively, when I read your bio and the words "sellout; pimp, gambler" jump out, I could see how a "hater" would judge. Maybe consider refining your bio description? (I think they gettin' jelly over there! ha)
0 likes • Jun '23
@Eli Hollingsworth sounds like Jelly
Q for Men who are shared by multiple women..
(I tried to condense this with chatgpt but it failed to include full context; apologies in advance for the length) I have a female partner of 3 years. We have an unconventional dynamic. It’s very healthy: we keep honest and transparency at the top of priorities, and we’re very effective communicators. She identifies as pan sexual yet has never been in a relationship with another woman. I’m a heterosexual male. In a nutshell: she claims I fulfill her to where she needs nothing from another man, and she also understands that, as an Exemplary Man, I have an appetite and am aware of it. She is understanding and open to me having my “cake and eat it to” so to speak. In this regard I am very blessed to have such a loyal and beautiful partner. She’s truly the woman of my dreams. Here is the dilemma: She always talks about wanting to bring in a third, or share me with another woman, yet in 3 years she hasn’t brought one female around that would be a considered a “prospect” for a lack of better word (I’m a salesman and use sales terminology often). Conversely, I’ve introduced her to multiple women and we’ve had a threesome in 2020 and a foursome in 2022 (3 girls if it must be clear). In other words, I initiated those arrangements, and the foursome, it was the first time they all met each other (I was looking like Michael Sartain w girls around me that night 😝). Anyways, it’s becoming “old” hearing her “talk but not walk” when it comes to networking, meeting new women (to identify if it’s a platonic opportunity, or a prospect opportunity), and overall taking the initiative to create more opportunities. It doesn’t help that she is inactive on social media, and is more of a consumer than a creator. When this topic gets brought up it typically turns to me getting frustrated or dismissal because to me she’s “all talk” and no game, when it comes to HER bringing in new women to get to know. I’d rather have sex with her and another for, rather than another girl solely, and expressed this to her today. She appreciated the sentiment, and I thought to try a different approach today, by asking if she would consider a trainer or a teacher, any resource that may provide her with tools, or confidence, or perspective that she can use to cultivate her desire of “pulling” women for us to meet.
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1 like • May '23
@Eli Hollingsworth thanks for the input. I don’t have other men to confide in about this so I’m happy I can here. You’re right, if I take 100% initiative to make arrangements, she’s going to follow suite, so long as we premeditate expectations (and make sure my lady is attracted to the third). The only thing that would mess the equilibrium up is if I am caught lying. That won’t happen, because I have no reason to do so w her. I guess where I get frustrated is her claims of being “proactive and highly engaged in the pursuit” being incongruent with a acrions/results (specifically, introducing us to women). Am I wrong in assuming it’s easier to do so for the female partner rather than the make partner, statistically speaking? I’m inundated with entrepreneurship at this stage in life that I don’t have time to go date, aka take the initiative to bring in a third. And a part of me feels entitled to expect that out of her, strictly based on her claims to have the desire to. If I’m being fully open, which you won’t find many men more open than myself, I’m also not the Man she met when we met 3 years ago. I’ve been battling addiction heavily over the past two years and she’s seen me at my worst, weak, ugly and downright depressed. A woman’s perspective of her masculine Man changes during those times. I’ve been making exponential change since March, and while I’m still not able to provide for her financially as I’d like, I have her mental and physical health on top of mind everyday. It helps fuel me forward. But let’s get real: Am I even deserving of this luxury right now? in other words, am I mentally, financially and physically in a state to be pressing her about her “track record” when I’m just getting back to being an Exemplary Man who’s Mindful and present? Likely not. Should I invest time to “swipe” or meet some new women and get my “fix” solo, which she’s a-okay with? To my point earlier about focusing on becoming my own Biz owner, I feel that’d be foolish on my part both professionally and personally.
1 like • May '23
@Jair Jay preciate ya JJ. To your point, she is walkin her talk. I’m specifically referring to her not “walking her talk” by not picking up women, versus me doing the heavy lifting. So your second paragraph, SPOT ON! I’ve discussed opening/closing w her, and I’m a sales professional so we’ve discussed it from a few perspectives. I’m glad you mentioned this; She’s not opening. She doesn’t use social media. She has 0 friends, well 1 GF, who I actually introduced her to. Her “initiative” is swiping on Bumble for girlfriend, albeit she knows in-person is most effective. Even outside of the sex desires, she needs to grow her circle of women more, so at the very least she can call them when she needs “girl time”. Or just as importantly, networking for opportunities. But I digress..
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