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Money Mondays: How much of it is there?
In another thread, @Katie James writes: "The unbroken rule in every group I'm in but this one is 'Don't talk about money' Which sort of sucks because earning money is a necessary part of life." Even in this group, we don't talk money all that much. Let's change that. I don't even know where to start. But in the interest of getting money talk off the ground, I'll take a stab at a first money topic, one that's not too intimate but that can still be enlightening (we can build up to intimate). So here's my question for you. Answer it based on your gut feeling, not logic: ====>>>> How much money is there in the world? In other words: Is money a finite quantity, like real estate or diamonds, so that if you get some, somebody else has to be denied? Or is money effectively infinite, where we can all have as much as we are comfortable with, like air or sunlight or ideas? Let's talk money. If you're game, write in the comments below how much money you think there is in the world, because getting clear on this can help you make more money. And like Katie says above, that's a necessary part of life.
Money Mondays: How much of it is there?
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It's more a fiction... a belief system. There's a book by Vaihinger "The Philosophy of AS IF" It's a good read explaining the many fictions humans live in/by. Once the faith in it diminishes, is when it collapses. Think Weimar Germany, Zimbabwe, Venezuela. 😁
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You'll love it @John Bejakovic You seem to be more philosophical than Mr Normy And that's NOT a judgment on being normal. Because being normal is quite a useful stance. And money has no intrinsic value. It used to have, when it was a receipt for Gold in the vault But now it's fiat... given value by Government decree. It's faith-based. I've got to be careful here, John. Upsetting people's worldview can be dangerous. I'll be chased outta the village by farmers with pitchforks 🫢
Written rules
Yesterday I wrote a post about unwritten rules that strengthen groups. That post got... 10 likes and 5 people to comment, in a group of 483 members. Maybe it was a particularly bad or irrelevant post. In any case it seems like a good time to talk about written rules. I recently joined a Facebook group. The group is about the same size as Daily Email House, but it's much more engaged. People are enthusiastically introducing themselves in the group as soon as they join (as did I)... ... spontaneously writing up new posts and starting new discussions all the time... ... commenting on others' posts all the time. How? Simple. The group has written rules stating that you have to introduce yourself when you join, and participate once you're inside, or you will get kicked out. And the moderators follow through on these rules. What do you think about that? Please comment below. Or don't. But I've decided to start doing the same: Periodically and randomly and brutally removing people who don't participate inside Daily Email House. Your choice.
Written rules
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🔥 After they respond (don’t miss this) Close the loop later with: Took a few of these… rewrote it…this version’s already pulling better. Here’s what changed 👇 That’s where trust compounds. Hope this helps some 😉
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@John Bejakovic I'm sure other people have offers... Lets commune🥳
Unwritten rules
This morning I watched a video about unwritten rules in baseball. (Bear with me if you know nothing about baseball or care nothing for baseball.) I had no idea, but baseball has had, for 100+ years, dozens of unwritten rules about player conduct, for example: - You cannot flip your bat after you hit a home run - You cannot have a beard (all teams, once upon a time, New York Yankees still today) - You cannot score from second base on a single if your team if the game is a blowout and your team is winning Now here's what got me: These unwritten rules are enforced BY THE PLAYERS THEMSELVES ON THE PLAYERS THEMSELVES... often by members of your own team! If you break one of these unwritten rules, odds are great that you will be beaten up, ostracized, or sometimes worse (eg. have a 100mph baseball launched at your face on purpose). Here's what else got me: - If you're a big star and you break a rule in a big moment, exceptions are made - If you're young or inexperienced, then you will be consistently and brutally punished by other players for breaking a rule I remember reading in, I believe, Robert Cialdini's Influence about the importance of hazing rituals to form a sense of in-group identity. That's what this reminds me of. Seemingly arbitrary rules, enforced by group members, as a way of reinforcing the importance of the group and of recommitting their loyalty to that group. Now I've really never belonged to any group, unless that group is the group of outsiders who don't really belong to any groups. But without getting too weird about it... I'm curious: What seemingly arbitrary rules have you experienced or seen in real-life groups you've been a part of? And in online groups you've been a part of?
3 likes • 17d
I like this post @John Bejakovic And not just for the baseball part. More for what the story points at 🫵 Because... There's a bunch of rules people follow every-single-day… and no one ever sat 'em down and explained this shit. You just picked 'em up, (the rules) and ran with them. Thing is... (and this is the tricky part) Ya don’t experience them as “rules." You just feel... 👉 hesitation👉 awkwardness👉 that quiet “this doesn’t feel right” vibe. So you assume… “That’s just who I am” But it’s NOT @John Bejakovic It’s stuff you absorbed slowly, through osmosis (think coffee percolator) Little signals like... - don’t stand out too much - don’t get ahead of yourself - don’t make things uncomfortable - Stay in your 'kin lane - And on, and on, and on... No one speaks them directly. But you break one… and watch how fast the room shifts. (ask me how I know😉) The subtle pullback you feel? That ain't personality... no sireee! It's conditioning doing its job. But once you see it, and you start catching it in real time… BOOM💥 You stop listening to that "helper" in your head, and instead... just move the fk on. Those times when you edit yourself, instead of going all Tourettes on the world. Where you play roles without thinking... "This is who I should be, in this situation. Only then does it become less about, “Who am I supposed to be in this room?” and more about... “What am I still following… that I never chose?” 😉 Hope this helps some. PS: Again... great post @John Bejakovic
Opt-In Critique
Am I writing too much for my opt-in? I've seen the other opt-in pages here and it's a lot simplistic, brief and to the point. I'm just a content creator who happened to stumble into the world of daily emailing, so any advice is appreciated :)
Opt-In Critique
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This page is doing the classic thing @Rain N It assumes the reader already agrees they have limiting beliefs. That’s a fixed frame of reference. But many readers are thinking... 👉“I don’t think I have limiting beliefs.” 👉“I just need a better strategy.” 👉“I’m busy, not blocked.” 👉“I already know this stuff.” So the page shoots right past them. To fix it, we calibrate to multiple entry frames instead of forcing one. Here’s a rewritten version based on that idea: https://docs.google.com/document/d/14Qao6Q4kE4OBXIoBg1BrlLorMRlIdCd3O3c_hIDhEhM/edit?usp=sharing It's yours. Hope it helps some 😉
Sales calls vs. sales pages
I'm curious what you think: Why do sales calls typically convert at 20%-50%... ... while sales pages typically convert at 2%-5%? If you had to put it down to just one thing?
Sales calls vs. sales pages
6 likes • 29d
I would say: Calibration, @John Bejakovic Because… A sales page is static. And it can’t adapt to the reader’s orientation/priors. Where as... A live call with a skilled salesperson calibrates in real time. They listen, adjust, and change the framing. They can also remove specific friction for that buyer. One broadcasts. The other aligns. Calibration wins.😉 Hope this helps some.
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