LIVE: Arguments ruining the holidays?
Quick heads up - due to popular demand, I'm running an encore of my "How To Stop Arguments & Fix Your Relationship" masterclass this Saturday at 5pm UK (midday EST). If you havenโt alreadyโฆ ===> Tap here to save your spot Nowโฆ I know itโs Thanksgiving in the US todayโฆ And then we have Christmasโฆ And New Year. Which means more time together, more tensions, and maybe more alcohol Plusโฆ More opportunities for unhealed relationship patterns to explode. Itโs one of the most challenging times of year for relationships. Because hereโs the thingโฆ The reason why arguments often blow up during the holidays is because this intense family time exposes all our unhealed patterns and triggers. Without realising it, we get caught in a destructive cycle where: * The more negative patterns you create, the more negative experiences you have. * The more negative experiences you have, the more negative behaviours you create. * The more negative behaviours you create, the more negative relationships you get. And unfortunately, these feed each other in a destructive cycle. It's why a relationship cannot survive if it has more than five negatives to one positive. To thrive, you need five positives to every one negative. And when you don't understand what's really causing the arguments, they just keep happening. Over and over. Getting bigger each time. Until the relationship breaks down completely. But here's the thing... These patterns can be fixed. Any relationship can be fixed. You just need the right system to break the cycle.