Good morning, ladies and gentlemen: This is a topic that will bring much discussion, and some are not going to agree with this and that is fine, because as ladies and gentlemen we all will not always agree on things but one thing we can do is agree to disagree. We can have positive dialog without anger and attitude. It is the opinion from some that as ladies and gentlemen that certain items especially clothing are meant for certain thigs and should only be worn for that purpose. Now, this was the way of life in the 30,40,50,60, and early 70's. but as time went on many things that intertwined, became mixed and/or incorporated. I personally feel that as ladies and gentlemen certain things are to be used for their intended purpose and should not be mixed or introduced as a new trend. For me things like: 1.wearing tennis with suits, 2. wearing gym clothing as everyday attire un public, 3. wearing bedroom attire in public 4. men carrying bags that resemble women's bags i.e. purse type bags 5. men wearing hats inside public places 6. women wearing sleep bonnets in [public 7. men wearing baseball caps with suits 8. people on speaker phone in the general public 9. people putting the whole life on social media 10. parking in no parking pr prohibited parking spaces because you feel you are just going to be in there a minute 11. men not opening doors for elderly and women 12. women wearing men athletic clothing 13. men and women gossiping about other people 14. people who give unwanted and unsolicited advice because they feel their opinions matter 15. men who do not pump gas for ladies or elderly people these are just 15 tings that I feel as ladies and gentlemen we need to correct and work on. Again, I am not saying that I am right ro anyone is wrong, these are my personal thoughts. But I am curious to hear what your thoughts are and what you feel as ladies and gentlemen we need to improve on. Remember these is NO Right Or Wrong, this is a discussion.

Sitting here watching the patriot Men from all diff backgrounds , new to a brand new continent took up muskets and pitch forks and took on the worlds largest standing army and defeated them!!! These men’s family’s had to learn of his war from their own eyes and in their own back yards RightNow we are in a different and yet same war of good and evil, right and wrong, and Freedom I’ll actually quote Cornwallis Everything will change Everything has changed Pastor Anthony mentioned last night that things and times are turning back and the pendulum is coming back in our direction!!! Right now we have a chance to be like the leaders back then to make change in our world Right Now!!! So I ask of you What is the Measure of Your Resolve? Will you stay the course?? Even the Reverend in the movie took up arms and said sometimes a shepherd must tend the flock!!!

Good afternoon, ladies and gentlemen, Since I started my journey and even more so recently, I have been more mindful and observant of things and people. Not in a negative and judgmental way but rather in a learning process of what to do an what not to do. One thing that I had to come to the realization is that there are so many aspects of becoming a gentleman or a lady for our ladies in this community, and even more so than I originally thought. So, as we start to develop and transform into these different aspects of being ladies and gentlemen and we began to hone in on these attributes, qualities, and characteristics, we have to fine tune them and then apply them to each one of us to fit who we are, this can be a difficult and daunting task especially, when we are not endure it, we want to make that change or even if it is for us. And we think that this is difficult part of this transformation, but this is still the easy part of this. Now here comes the really important part, to start bringing all these aspects together and, make then fit like a puzzle. As you began to adjust, move, turn, and try to make sense and make it look like it is supposed to look from all the pictures you've seen in magazines, books, movies, and those in person. We will even go as far as trying to trim something that we know will not fit to try to make it work, and we want to make it work until we step back and look; and certain parts of this picture, we have that we want to be look good but there is somethings that are off in this picture, like the right shoes, the right fit, the right fragrances for you, the picture we are looking for is very close but just not quite right. So we finally get it right to where we want it to be, the right look and everything we have in in place. Now here comes the moist important and most difficult part of this whole endeavor we started out to do, now it's time to put our masterpiece on display, to walk out in public and display our canvas, (our new person we brought into existence), to put ourselves on display to the world.

My wife asked me a while back to create a modified photo of her to help motivate her to lose a little weight. I put her picture into Ai and created one and all I can say is WOW.......

Good morning, ladies, and gentlemen, Sorry I have not posted in a couple of days dues to being under the weather. Being on this journey that we chose is not always easy. It takes dedication, motivation, and strength. Whether you are a lady or a gentleman having the strength to change or remain the same determines your journey destination and growth. One of the ways that we determine where we are, how we are doing, and how strong we are on this journey is to evaluate our strength. Doing a self-evaluation is not a form of weakness; just the opposite, it shows strength. A person who can evaluate themselves honestly and make the necessary changes show great strength. Below is a list of things that will help you evaluate your strength on this journey. If you are true to yourself then you will be able to identify and make the necessary changes and see positive results. Signs of being weak: 1. Afraid to say "No" 2. Addicted to porn or social media 3. have a victim mentality 4. Slave to your addictions 5. Always gossiping about others 6. Not able to handle criticism well 7. Gets influenced by others 8. Lack of discipline to take action 9. Blaming others for your miserable life 10. Prioritize pleasure over everything else 11. Not taking responsibility for their actions 12. Low self-esteem and low confidence This list is just not a complete list but rather a starting point to evaluate and a place to start to make changes if necessary. If none of these apply, great you are off to a great start. But if you find yourself doing some of these, then it's time to address these while the year is just beginning. These corrections will affect the rest of your year; in work, relationships, and your journey to becoming the best version of you. Remember positive change create positive results.