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Society's Virtual Lounge 🎩 is happening in 16 hours
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The Society Lounge Live
I want to invite all of our members to the Society tomorrow March 8, 2026. Last week we had some great discussions on world events, style, relationships, and general conversations. I learned more about some of the members last week than I have since joining. If you have never been to the Society Lounge, I encourage you to come and bring your favorite drink, your favorite smokes, favorite snack or appetizer, and your favorite topics. This is a great opportunity to share what type of topics you would like to discuss in the Society Lounge. There are some exciting events and developments coming up in the society, and you don’t want to miss all the details. Plus, this is the perfect time to meet some of the members. I am looking forward to meeting all of you and have a drink with you and hear from each of you. Times are listed below according to time zones to help facilitate scheduling: Note: The Society Lounge times have been changed to start earlier to our European members to attend: 9:00 PM Zurich 5:00 PM London 3:00 PM NY 2:00 PM TX 12:00 PM CA 7:00 AM Melbourne AU 9:00 AM Wellington NZ
The Society Lounge Live
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Release of Community Feedback Survey Results
Greetings Gentlemen, Ladies, and Board, Over the past several weeks, We have invited members of our community to participate in a feedback survey regarding the direction, culture, and governance of our shared space. The purpose of the survey was to listen carefully to the collective voice of the community and to better understand the experiences, concerns, and hopes of those who participate here. The responses reflected a thoughtful and engaged membership that values the community, the conversations it fosters, and the opportunity to gather around shared interests and ideas. At the same time, members offered constructive feedback on areas where the community can continue to improve. Several themes appeared consistently throughout the responses, including the importance of respectful discourse, clearer expectations around conduct, improved communication, and greater transparency in decision making and moderation processes. Many respondents emphasized the desire to preserve an environment where disagreement can occur without hostility and where fairness, consistency, and mutual respect guide how the community operates. The Board views this feedback not as a final judgment but as a meaningful contribution to the ongoing development of the community. A community that reflects on itself openly demonstrates the capacity to grow. In the spirit of transparency, the survey results are being shared below so that members may review the themes and responses directly. We are grateful to everyone who participated and we will continue working toward a community where thoughtful conversation and mutual respect can flourish. Community Feedback Survey Results, PDF link, visit here: https://drive.google.com/file/d/1_12wMQTUfPxE_lSl73saFuJkyhdEJwD-/view?usp=sharing Additionally, we shall be hosting a live session to discuss, to reply to questions, and take comments from the community regarding the results and topics of survey findings. Please be on the look out in the coming days for date & time announcement.
Release of Community Feedback Survey Results
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The Time for Unity is Now!
Ladies and Gentlemen, I wanted to remind everyone that we are a Society and with that we have taken on a great mission. That mission is to be the go-to online community for individuals seeking to live with sophistication, confidence, and discipline. To do this, we must cultivate modern gentlemen by teaching skills, habits, and mindsets that elevate personal style, communication, health, and lifestyle through community, courses, and mentorship. This is our mission and vision and the time to get serious about that mission is now. The leadership has been working toward these goals and will continue to work toward it, but I need to have the assurance that our members are “on board” so that we are all working together and toward the same goal. To do this, we are in need of a Director of Communications to work on our social media, website, and to help with promotions of future events. If you are interested in this position, please private message me and I can send the Office description. Other positions may follow when needs are assessed. We will also be changing level names and most of the categories to align with our mission. While the level names have not been determined yet, the categories will be: 1. S/OG Archives 2. Society News 3. Introductions 4. The Lounge 5. The Reflection Room 6. Wit & Banter 7. Style & Grooming 8. The Dining Experience 9. Wins & Progress 10. Health & Fitness Since “The Reflection Room” will be a somber category for deep thoughts and contemplation, I ask that comments stay away from comedy and sarcasm. The leadership of the Society is open to any comments or suggestions that you might have. If you have any questions about any of this or have any others suggestions feel free to add those in the comments or private message one of our board members. The names of the board members are listed in the classroom section in “The Society’s Constitution” course. To sum this up, please remember that as true ladies and gentlemen, we hold ourselves to a higher standard and we must uphold those gentlemen values both here and in public. You never know when people are watching you to see how a true gentlemen should act and we much set that example.
New acquisitions
New black ariat rebar work pants , bought these only to wear with the awesome cowboy shirt I married my wife in Also yes my black duster im in draw posture , its high noon boys!! Also 2 new pocket watches I ordered came in , one black and one silver Cowboy culture has always been apart of myself and family all the way back in history . Have always loved Wyatt Earp and brothers, doc holiday and other greats. Cowboy culture was a huge part of American History as well!!
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On Dressing Intrepidly
Greetings gentlemen, I recently watched a thoughtful video from Gentleman's Gazette (linked below) that articulates something many of us have sensed but perhaps not fully expressed: the greatest barrier to dressing well is rarely knowledge. It is fear. Modern society quietly enforces a subtle uniform. Walk through most professional districts and one observes a curious paradox. Men are encouraged to express themselves in almost every dimension of life except the one most visibly under their control: their dress. The result is an unspoken conformity sustained by a herd instinct that discourages deviation. Yet classic style has never been about vanity or elitism. Properly understood, it is an expression of intention. To dress with care is simply to present oneself to the world with deliberation rather than accident. Two realities follow from this. First, dressing differently will occasionally provoke discomfort in others. Some will assume that dressing well implies judgment of those who do not. The correct response is not defensiveness but courtesy. A gentleman disproves the stereotype of arrogance through humility, warmth, and good humor. Second, confidence in style emerges through practice. One will make mistakes. One will experiment. One will imitate the great examples of the past before gradually refining a personal signature. There is also a subtle social function to dressing well that is rarely discussed. Every man who chooses to present himself with dignity slightly expands what is considered normal. When one gentleman does it, he stands alone. When several do it, a culture quietly begins to shift. As a member of the Society of Ordinary Gentlemen, we hope to exemplify this cultural shift in our world as leaders of sartorial acumen. In that sense, dressing well is not merely aesthetic. It represents deliberate action. So if you feel the quiet inclination to wear the jacket, the tie, the polished shoes, or simply to take greater care in your presentation, do not hesitate. Step forward with composure and good humor. Do so not to impress, but to embody self respect.
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