Big thanks to all those who attended live. The recording is now available here: https://www.skool.com/brojo-brotherhood-2147/social-confidence-workshop-recording We covered how to build a social circle from scratch, then dissected how to go from introducing yourself to someone new and building a deep connection quickly using charismatic listening. We ran out of time so I will finish the 3rd part - overcoming social fears - during our next Brotherhood call this week. Cheers @Stefano Ferrucci @Prateek G @Hemi Rainford @Shane Day @Mark Levy @Dana R @Aaron Frater @Joel Smith @Egor Titov

Most people think social confidence is something you either have or you don’t. The truth? It’s a skill — and you can build it faster than you think. In this 3-hour live workshop, I’ll walk you through how to go from socially hesitant to socially confident — step by step. I used to have chronic social anxiety and depended on other people lead. Nowadays, I could start from zero in a new city without knowing anyone and have a robust social circle and dating life up and running within a few weeks. All without being fake or trying hard. This is something anyone can learn to do. So I'll show you how. This session is completely free for all Brojo Brotherhood (VIP) members. If you’re not in yet, joining the Brotherhood will give you access, including the full recording after. ------------------------------------------------------------------- 💬 What You’ll Learn 1️⃣ Build Your Social Circle (from zero) Learn the exact process to go from knowing no one to having a circle of genuine friends and romantic opportunities. ✅ Where to find good-fit people so you give yourself the best odds at connecting comfortably without high risk of rejection ✅ How to naturally turn strangers into friends without it feeling awkward or forced ✅ How to create a social life that fits your personality rather than trying to "fit in" No more waiting to be included — learn how to create and lead your own tribe. ------------------------------------------------------------------- 2️⃣ Master the Core Social Skills Develop communication skills that make connecting effortless. ✅ Body language and voice techniques that show confidence and make people respect and listen to you ✅ How to initiate and lead deeper conversations so that you give yourself the best chances ✅ Expressing attraction and interest honestly to effortlessly escalate both romantic and platonic relationships Become that calm, grounded person everyone feels comfortable around... or at least respects. -------------------------------------------------------------------

Hey guys, thanks for all your feedback on improving the group. One main idea coming through is 30 day challenges. Something fun and practical we can do together as a group. I wanted to put a twist on this, incorporating some kind of playful competitive element that will push us to really step up. Here's the idea: Squid Game 30-day Survival Challenge I'd start the month with some kind of themed challenge, e.g. Assertiveness. A few times per week there would be some small but challenging action to take that can be "proven" to the rest of the group (e.g. "Tell us about a confrontation you're avoiding" or "Screenshot a picture of you telling someone to call you instead of text" or "Post a video of you doing..."). The people who complete the challenge within 48 hours move onto the next round. Those who don't are eliminated and must wait for the next month. I'm thinking BIG prizes for the winners, like 3x months of 1:1 coaching with me for the winner (worth $6k), 3 months of free Brotherhood for the 2nd place, and maybe a Brojo tshirts or books for 3rd. What do you guys think? Let me know what this game would need to include for you to be excited about participating!

Daily Dose of Integrity New full length video out today! Most Nice Guys were never taught how to handle emotions—they were taught to suppress them. But avoiding emotional pain only makes it worse, leading to frustration, resentment, and unhealthy coping mechanisms like overworking, people-pleasing, or numbing out. In this video, I break down why emotional suffering isn’t caused by the feelings themselves but by the stories we attach to them—and how you can start handling emotions in a healthier way. You’ll learn: ✔️ Why labeling emotions as "bad" makes them harder to deal with ✔️ A simple technique to express emotions without feeling weak ✔️ How to use emotions as fuel instead of running from them Once you shift your mindset around emotions, they stop controlling you—you control them. Whether it's sadness, anger, or anxiety, every emotion serves a purpose, and I'll show you how to work with them instead of fighting against them. 👉 Question for you: What emotion do you struggle with the most—anger, sadness, or fear? Drop a comment below and let’s talk about it. Your experience might help someone else, too! Watch the video here: https://theinspirationallifestyle.com/the-secret-to-handling-emotions-like-a-confident-man/

Welcome everyone to the Brojo Integrity Army community! Thank you all so much for joining. NEXT STEPS: 1) Please write a post introducing yourself - where you're from, what you're working on, and anything else you want people to know about you. 2) Have a look at the Nice Guy Recovery & Social Confidence course in the Classroom tab. 3) Check out the Membership Upgrade options to unlock the most valuable courses and coaching support. 4) Test out the Virtual Dan Coaching App to get specific support and guidance on your unique goals and issues (you'll be amazed at how much it sounds like Dan). ------ Some group rules to keep in mind: - No solicitation without my approval - do not offer your services or products as posts or private comments to other members - if someone does this, let me know immediately. This will result in a permanent ban. - Keep it respectful and try to help each other out. Disagreement is fine, abuse is not. - This page is exclusively about self-development, so discussions on unrelated topics (e.g. politics) will get deleted. - If anything in this group bothers you for whatever reason, please personally message me and I'll try to sort it out Thanks, and enjoy the community!! Dan