The loneliest seat in the Restaurant
There was a conversation this morning between two restaurant owners that stuck with me. One of the hardest parts of ownership is realizing there aren’t many places where you can speak honestly. A lot of us carry pressure quietly because somewhere along the way, owners stopped being seen as people and started being treated like targets. It feels like we’ve forgotten how to celebrate each other. Success gets questioned. Struggle gets judged. And too often, people only reach out when there’s an angle, an opportunity, or something attached to the conversation. I know I’m not perfect. No owner is. I’ve made mistakes, learned lessons the hard way, and I’m still figuring things out every day. But I’m still human behind the business, the brand, and the restaurant walls. Most of us got into this because we genuinely care about people. We want to create spaces where others feel welcomed, supported, and connected. Sometimes I think owners need that same space too. A little more empathy would go a long way in this industry. If you’re an owner, operator, chef, or creative… when was the last time someone checked on you without needing something in return?