Hey ladies due to the holiday tonight’s call is cancelled ♥️♥️♥️♥️

Happy Wednesday, ladies! As we head into Thanksgivin,g I want to clear up confusion on what a boundary is. A boundary is NOT being bossy. Sometimes people think that telling people what to do is a boundary 🫢! No Telling people what to do is a DEMAND. Example "Don't you dare talk to me like that!" Making a STATEMENT of what YOU will do is a boundary. "If you talk like that, I will leave!" Have you ever mixed these two items up? I would love to hear your thoughts!

Ladies! What makes it so hard to set those boundaries????????/Tonight we will be discussing that dreaded emotion "GUILT" that comes up when you set boundaries. I am exposing LIES...THAT IS RIGHT! We will go over THREE LIES that keep you stuck when you need to set boundaries. We start at 6:30pm (PST)!

I recently asked our community: “What’s the #1 emotion you experience when setting boundaries?” The top answer was.... guilt. One woman asked me, “How can I set boundaries without feeling guilty?” And I told her the truth: you can’t. But here’s the good news the goal isn’t to avoid guilt.The goal is to set the boundary despite the guilt. Here’s why 👇 Your brain has been trained to: ✅ Fix problems that aren’t yours ✅ Take on projects to “help” ✅ Step in to make sure it’s done right And guilt? It’s your brain’s protective mechanism trying to keep you “safe”… even when safe means stuck. Here’s how to rewire that response:1️⃣ Recognize: Guilt isn’t truth. Boundaries protect your peace, not violate your values. Let’s talk:👉 Where do you need to set a boundary despite the guilt this week?

You have learned so much here in the community from walking with your voice to taking microsteps and even realizing that being "nice" is manipulative. How has learning using tools 🧰helped you win at work, with family or at home? We would love to hear!