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Coffee hour Wednesday at 11am (08/12)
Topic: The walls we build to keep ourselves safe can also be the very things that keep us from creating the life we truly want. Who’s joining? 😌
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Book Recommendations
- The Velvet Rage (Overcoming the pain of growing in a straight man's world) - Attached (New science of adult attachment and how it can help you find and keep love) - The ethical slut (A practical guide to polyamory, open relationships and other freedoms in sex and love) - Out of the shadows (Reimagining gay men's lives) If you have more book recommendations, please add them in the comments below. Also Dylan mentioned in our today's call that a bookclub would be awesome, what do you guys think, interested?
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Welcome! Introduce yourself 🎉
Welcome to the #1 Community for gay men focused on real connection, personal growth, and raising standards in health, dating, and life. Remember, this journey is about progress, not perfection. Show up each day with kindness, curiosity, and a willingness to post or ask anything you’d like to do. We can all support each other along the way. Step 1: Download the Skool app to make your experience easier: Get the iOS app here. Get the Android app here. And turn on your notifications! Step 2: Introduce yourself: Where are you from and what do you like to do for fun? ☺️ ALSO: This Group Is For All Of Us! Please feel free to ask questions, share wins, tell stories, vent a little, or post whatever’s on your mind. Just pick a category below and jump in. Don’t wait for me to be the only one starting the good conversations. This group gets better when all of us bring something to the table. You never know — your post might help someone else, spark a great conversation, or make another guy feel a little less alone. This is a judgment-free zone. Bring honesty, curiosity, and good energy. If someone shows up rude, weird, or disrespectful… I’ll take care of it 😎
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We need to talk about body image.
Today’s call went deep. We talked about body image — and how for gay men it’s not just personal. It’s cultural. It’s the apps, the social media, the unspoken rule that the better you look the more options you have. And the older you get the more invisible you become. That’s a painful truth nobody talks about enough. We also talked about the paradox of it all. So many of us want a real relationship. But we lead with looks — ours and theirs. The soul comes second. And yet the soul is the only thing that actually lasts. Bodies change. Always. There’s also a difference between taking care of yourself because you love yourself — and doing it because you feel like you’re not enough without it. One comes from strength. The other comes from fear. And a lot of what we see today — the peptides, the TRT, the look-maxing — is fear dressed up as discipline. More options don’t make life easier. If anything we’ve never been more lost. And maybe it’s time we start giving people a real chance — not just the ones who look right, but the ones who feel right. That’s what we talked about today. Monday 6PM PDT · Wednesday 11AM PDT Come as you are.
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July
I’m feeling a little more emotionally vulnerable than usual. I lost my parents during months of July about five years apart (Mom just last year). Anyone gone through something similar?
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