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Dating your friends
I know I know you probably thought I was talking about romantically dating people from your friend group. I am not going there .. today anyway.
When you are meeting up with people you see as romantic and erotic prospects the tendency is to try to impress them. Whether you are interested in a new spicy link up or looking for a long term relationship the urgency in locking them down often feels very real.
When it comes to our friends there is a beautiful comfort in being able to do less. Sometimes this is wonderful. I would like to encourage you that it is worth it to make plans that are more robust.
Be curious and try to make an effort it helps your friends feel valued and seen.
You can do this by flipping through the following ideas.
- Plan something you think they would enjoy
- Share an experience with them that you love
- Plan something together that you both think would be enjoyable
- Make time to do something that you know they need help with
Yes catching up is great and needed. Simple hang outs are the stuff that friendships are built on.
Every now and then it's nice to give more than just the pleasure of your company .
If you have any ideas let me know below
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