Common Recruiting Myths That Hold Athletes Back
There’s a lot of misinformation around recruiting and believing the wrong things can slow the whole process down. Here are a few myths I see all the time. “If they want me, they’ll reach out first.” Most of the time, coaches expect athletes to reach out. Not hearing from a coach doesn’t mean they aren’t interested, it usually means they’re busy or haven’t seen you yet. There are a lot of athletes to look at. “No response means no interest.” Coaches get a lot of emails. A no response is not a no. It often just means timing, travel, or a full inbox. Follow-ups matter. “I’m bothering coaches.” You’re not. Recruiting is part of their job. Reaching out respectfully and professionally is exactly what they expect. “I’m not good enough yet.” This is one of the biggest myths in recruiting. A lot of athletes never even try because they assume they aren’t good enough for a certain level. I’ve seen players talk themselves out of recruiting altogether and some of them absolutely were good enough. Others would have been great fits at different levels or programs they never considered. Recruiting isn’t about one division or one label. There are strong, competitive, and well-supported programs across many levels, and a lot of athletes thrive once they find the right fit. The goal isn’t to chase a title or a level. It’s to find a place where you can grow, compete, and enjoy the experience. If you wait until you feel “good enough,” you might miss opportunities that were actually there for you. Recruiting is rarely linear. It takes patience, consistency, and learning along the way. If recruiting feels overwhelming right now, you’re not alone. Start where you are, take small steps, and adjust as you learn more.