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Hats: Etiquette, Craft, and Cultural Meaning
Greetings gents,
A gentleman may be encouraged to wear a hat not as an affectation or a nostalgic costume—à la Peaky Blinders—but as a deliberate choice grounded in a long-standing tradition of dignity, practical function, and self-discipline. Historically, the hat served simultaneously as protection from the elements, a marker of social role, and a visible extension of personal order; its presence signified intentionality where disorder might otherwise prevail. To don a hat is to acknowledge that appearance is not trivial, that the body inhabits the world symbolically as well as materially, and that one’s outward form may either harmonize with—or betray—one’s inward discipline. In an age inclined toward informality and aesthetic neglect, the hat quietly restores proportion: it reasserts that care, restraint, and continuity remain virtues, and that a gentleman’s self-presentation is not vanity but responsibility.
In what follows, this short essay examines hat etiquette, typology and vocabulary, care and maintenance, and the sociological factors contributing to the hat’s cultural decline. It is intentionally constructed as a curated exegetical work, guiding the reader toward a body of high-quality visual material while providing interpretive structure and philosophical orientation. The videos referenced herein originate primarily from The Gentleman's Gazette, whose work preserves and elucidates forms of dress, etiquette, and masculine presentation that have largely fallen into neglect. We begin by considering the hat itself—its anatomy and proper wear—before surveying a selection of hat types whose inception in the nineteenth century continue to inform contemporary menswear. The hats under examination are primarily Western European in origin, not to diminish the richness or significance of headwear traditions from other cultures, but because the hats most naturally accompanying a well-fitted suit tend to emerge from this western lineage. The essay then turns to the stewardship of the hat through proper care and maintenance, and concludes with a reflection on the cultural conditions that led to the hat’s decline from everyday life.
Hat Vocabulary & Etiquette
- Gentleman's Gazette: Men's Hats Essentials 101: Anatomy & Vocabulary
The video above describes the core vocabulary of hat anatomy. We learned about the Crown & Crease (known collectively as Pinch). Tip: A hat should never be handled by the crease, as oils from the hand will stain and weaken the felt over time. The brim is the proper point of contact. Next, we learned of the brim, flange, underside, and binding. Tip: a hat should never sit upon its brim. It must be sat inverted upon its crown, or on a hat rack. Construction materials often reflect seasonality, durability, and intention. Felt materials are good for cold climates; fur felt is one of the warmest materials. Straw reflects a widespread of weaves and variant quality construction. The famous Panama hat is made from straw – same as the boater. Polyester is horrible and a scourge on our society as discerning gentlemen – avoid it at any and all costs. In all, as your knowledge deepens about sartorial style and menswear, you can appreciate more about the genesis of each particular hat – its geography, its sociology, and its craftsmanship.
Next,
Hat etiquette concerns not fashion preference but situational propriety—the discernment of when a hat serves its purpose and when it must yield to the meaning of a place or moment. In general, a gentleman wears a hat outdoors and may keep it on in large, transitional indoor public spaces such as train stations or airports. Upon entering a private residence, a place of worship, an office or school, or a restaurant, he removes his hat promptly, recognizing that these spaces invite presence rather than passage. As a rule, a gentleman does not wear a hat while eating. Informal exceptions may include picnics or casual open-air cafés; however, when dining outdoors at a fine establishment, hat removal remains proper. In places of worship, the custom of removing one’s hat admits certain religious exceptions, yet the guiding principle remains deference to the sacred.
Outdoors, a gentleman removes his hat during national anthems—not only for the Star-Spangled Banner, but for the anthems of other nations as well—as well as during moments of silence, funerals, and the passing of a flag or casket. In these instances, hat removal is an act of deference to collective meaning, a visible acknowledgment of shared gravity and responsibility. It is a gesture uniquely available to the hatted man, and thus carries a weight of intentional respect - that of which, is wholly absent for the non-hatted individual.
Seating further refines etiquette, though context remains decisive. When standing outdoors, a gentleman wears his hat if he has one. When seated indoors, the hat comes off without exception. When seated outdoors, hat removal becomes proper when dining formally or when engaged in close conversation with others, where unobstructed presence is called for. Attention to these seemingly simple rules is rarely unnoticed, particularly within cultivated social settings, where restraint and discernment are recognized as marks of refinement rather than affectation.
Here are a few highlighted hat etiquette videos for your edification:
- Gentleman's Gazette: Men's Hat Etiquette
- Gentleman's Gazette: How to Wear a Hat with Style & Confidence
- Ash Jones: General Hat Etiquette for Men
The Typology of Hats
Below is a fine treasure trove by the renowned Gentleman's Gazette about hats. Many of these hats save the fedora and flat (e.g. newsboy) caps have greatly declined in popularity. That said, as gentlemen, our journey through menswear must acknowledge that once our forefathers wore these hats. With careful consideration, perhaps… we, too, may again don the hat that suits our physique, style, and geographical location.
Choose informatively.
- The Fedora
- The Boater
- The Trilby, the Homburg, & Pork Pie hats
- The Bowler
- The Panama
- The Stetson
- The Flat cap (includes Newsboy)
- The Best Classic Men's Hats for Warm & Hot Weather
Hat Care & Maintenance
A gentleman should learn the care, storage, and maintenance of a hat because such knowledge transforms ownership into stewardship, affirming that objects of quality are not meant to be consumed and discarded but preserved, respected, and handed forward. Historically, a well-made hat was expected to endure years—often decades—of use, and this endurance depended less on novelty than on informed habit: proper handling, thoughtful storage, and regular maintenance.
To care for a hat is to recognize that craftsmanship responds to attentiveness, and that neglect silently erodes even the finest materials. More broadly, the discipline of maintenance reflects ones inner character: it resists disposability, rewards patience, and reinforces continuity between intention and action. In learning how to care for his hat, a gentleman rehearses a larger truth—that dignity is sustained not by acquisition, but by constancy. Be still, and wear your hat.
The following videos provide a overview into proper hat care & maintenance.
- Gentleman's Gazette: How to Clean & Store Men's Hats
- Kirby Allison: How to Properly Care for a Felt Hat: Tips & Trick
The Decline of the Hat
It is said that World War II brought upon the fall and demise of the hat in western society. Others say it was JFK when he was the first US president to give his inaugural speech without the customary top hat. Below we explore the reasons for hat’s decline. Perhaps, with this knowledge, we, as gentlemen, can act with a renewed purpose to bring the hat back into the public consciousness as a sign of dignity, responsibility, and sartorial elegance.
- Gentleman's Gazette: Why Did Men Stop Wearing Hats?
- Real Men Real Style: Why Men Stopped Wearing Hats.
Let us now consider why a gentleman should wear a hat? I believe the esteemed Ash Jones engages this enduring question with an astute lucidity. Of which, I also summarize below.
- Ash Jones: Why Wear a Hat?
A gentleman should wear a hat today precisely because it reintroduces intention into a culture that has drifted toward aesthetic negligence and unconscious uniformity. While modern life has reduced the necessity of hats through climate control, private transport, and casual dress norms, it has not diminished their utility or symbolic power. A well-chosen hat remains superior in function to casual headwear, offering genuine protection from sun and weather while fitting securely and comfortably. More importantly, the hat restores proportion to a man’s appearance: it adds visual height and presence, completes an ensemble from head to toe, and allows the wearer to engage in visible acts of etiquette—removal during moments of gravity, acknowledgment of others, or collective remembrance. The hat also serves a humane purpose, quietly concealing insecurities while reinforcing confidence through form rather than bravado. Historically, hats have signified responsibility, authority, and identity; to reclaim them today is not to imitate the past, but to recover a language of dress, a dignity, that communicates seriousness, restraint, and self-command in a world increasingly indifferent to all three.
Cheers! Soli Deo gloria.
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Hats: Etiquette, Craft, and Cultural Meaning
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