Brothers, There’s the belief that monogamy is the “truest” or “most evolved” way to relate… But the more men (and women) I’ve worked with, the more I see that every relational structure is simply a training ground for the self. Some men need monogamy to finally learn how to open their hearts. Some need a period of exploration to reconnect with desire. Some benefit from celibacy to bring the focus back inside. Some learn more about honesty and communication through polyamory than they ever did through monogamy. We all move through relational seasons, and each season reflects where our soul is still learning, healing, or growing. What matters isn’t the structure itself, it’s whether the relationships we’re in become doorways to deeper intimacy, or distractions from doing our real work. I’m genuinely curious to hear from you: - What relational seasons have you gone through? - What did each one reveal about you as a man? - Where did you meet your growth edges? - Were you consciously exploring those dynamics, or were you escaping something? There’s no right or wrong here, only truth. Share whatever feels real. This is the kind of conversation that actually evolves us.

Today is short and simple: Why are you here? I’ve started this Skool community a while ago, and in that time what I’m putting out in the world has evolved. Now, the goal remains the same: serving others with my fullest capacity. And to do that better, I’d love to hear what you are looking for. - Are you here to learn how to be a healthy, balanced, mature man? - To get some insights into the female perspective? - Curious to hear stories about my own journey into seduction and intimacy? - Do you have a desire to become an unforgettable lover yourself? - Are you figuring out what your own path is, and this is a stop on that discovery? - All of the above, or something entirely different? I’d love to hear it. As an extra incentive: Anyone who replies to this post gets 10% of the relaunch of my flagship 8-week program, Reclaim the Fire, starting on November 11th. If you’re curious about it, I’m hosting a free webinar this Thursday on Polarity. The one thing that truly unlocked the secrets to passionate intimacy and healthy relationship dynamics for me, and for others. It’s also the foundation of the entire Reclaim the Fire program. So it’s a good free peek inside. !!Read about that here!! Hope to see you there. — Sanne

Hey brother, I needed to step away from the whole content grind for a while. As you know, my mission is to restore the beauty and passion in intimate relationships. To help men reclaim their birthright of being magnetic and confident in and outside of the bedroom. And to bring reverence back into man-woman dynamics. Now, I might have stopped posting, but have been diligent and hard at work. Over the past three months, I’ve taken a small group of men through a journey of Polarity, Arousal and Erotic Leadership. We’ve learned the ins and out of the female sexual pespective. How to cultivate our inner fire. How attraction works. How to communicate for better intimacy. How to have truly ecstatic lovemaking. And so much more. I’ve built a tool to gage where your intimate life could use a boost, with practices to improve it. [take the diagnostic test here] I’ve talked to many of you about the struggles and wins of your intimacy life. I’ve gone to Conscious Sexuality Temples nights, various tantra and bdsm workshops, and intimate touch play spaces. All to increase my knowledge and skills to better serve you. (And because it’s damn fun) I write you all this to remind you, and myself, that I’m in this for the long run. The content I put out isn’t always what I’d like it to be. But my heart is still fully behind it. The passion and the drive is stronger than ever. We all deserve a fulfilling, exciting, and deeply pleasurable intimate life. And as the year comes to a close, the urgency I feel to support you in getting there grows by the day. So I’m still here, ready to take you on a journey of erotic leadership. If you’re still in, stick around. If you’re not, good luck on your new adventures. Your brother, Sanne

I'm a big believer in journaling. For the reasons why, check out this video. [Link video] To make it more appealing to journal, and to remind yourself to do it, I suggest buying one that stands out or resonates with you. Here you can share a picture of the journal you've bought.

I'm super into productivity. So I'm always looking for better ways to organize my life and the tasks that need doing. After years and years of trying out systems and fine-tuning them. I now have one that I find super satisfying. But, there are always to improve it even more, so I'd like to hear from you men. Do you have task management system, and how do you use it? Share it in the comments.