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Relational Seasons
Brothers,
There’s the belief that monogamy is the “truest” or “most evolved” way to relate…
But the more men (and women) I’ve worked with,
the more I see that every relational structure is simply a training ground for the self.
Some men need monogamy to finally learn how to open their hearts.
Some need a period of exploration to reconnect with desire.
Some benefit from celibacy to bring the focus back inside.
Some learn more about honesty and communication through polyamory than they ever did through monogamy.
We all move through relational seasons,
and each season reflects where our soul is still learning, healing, or growing.
What matters isn’t the structure itself,
it’s whether the relationships we’re in become doorways to deeper intimacy,
or distractions from doing our real work.
I’m genuinely curious to hear from you:
- What relational seasons have you gone through?
- What did each one reveal about you as a man?
- Where did you meet your growth edges?
- Were you consciously exploring those dynamics, or were you escaping something?
There’s no right or wrong here, only truth.
Share whatever feels real.
This is the kind of conversation that actually evolves us.
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