April 21st I was invited to after Sunday brunch to celebrate a birthday. I had noticed a woman with her friend standing in line and felt I should pursue her. After multiple times trying to initiate conversation and getting no where, I say with my group and got up to get a gift card from the place and gave her $40 to help pay for her and her friends lunch. Being helped with kids from my party carrying the birthday cake asking me to direct them in front of this woman ?m, I got her number and since we have been corresponding calling and have gone on 1 date lasting 8 hours from 7pm to 3am. I feel very blessed and touched by God with this woman and although no person will be perfect and both of us will have to grow into each others faults, I am blessed to get the opportunity to receive a woman and appreciate all her strengths and weaknesses as a Man and not as a boy that I am growing out of. If you feel the compulsion to call out to someone don’t make it weird in your head and instead just speak and go with the flow. You will never know what you are capable of if you don’t take the shots that you don’t do.