Balancing Responsibilities Without Forgetting Yourself

Lately, I’ve been under a lot of pressure from different areas of life. There are financial responsibilities that require strict saving, careful planning, and zero room for mistakes. On top of that, February and March are packed with commitments and holidays that need both time and money.

While trying to take care of everyone’s needs and keep things stable, I’ve noticed a pattern: I usually put myself last. I postpone buying things I genuinely want—like new clothes or workout equipment—and tell myself “later” is more responsible. Most of the time, I’m okay with that decision.

That said, I do make sure to protect my mental space. I spend time with people who matter to me, and I always keep at least one full off-day—even on busy weeks. No work, no pressure, no overthinking. Just movies, rest, and enjoyment.

Still, I feel like something is missing.

I’m not someone whose love language is gifts, but when you’ve been wanting something for a long time—especially under financial stress—getting it can feel deeply meaningful. Almost like proof that you’re allowed to take care of yourself the same way you take care of others.

So I’m curious to hear your perspectives, gents: