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The Forge: Bootcamp Session is happening in 4 days
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🔥 Welcome to The Forge
Hey brother, I’m really glad you’re here. If you’ve found your way to this community, chances are you’re walking through one of the hardest fires a man can face — the pain of infidelity. Whether you’re still in shock, trying to make sense of what happened, or searching for a path forward, you’re not alone anymore. I've walked through this fire and came out stronger on the other side. The Forge exists to help men heal, grow, and rebuild after betrayal. This is a place where we take the heat of our pain and use it to create something stronger — peace, clarity, and purpose. Here’s what you’ll find inside: - A community of men who get it and have your back - Tools and guidance to help you navigate the chaos - Free and paid resources to support your recovery - Encouragement to take small steps forward, one day at a time You don’t have to have it all figured out to start. Just be real, stay open, and take that next step. We heal best when we heal together. Welcome to The Forge — where fire creates strength and brotherhood builds hope. Paul
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⚒️ Understanding the Two Levels of The Forge
Hey brothers, I wanted to take a moment to explain the two ways you can be part of The Forge and what each level offers. Every man’s healing journey looks a little different, and this gives you the flexibility to choose what you need right now. 1. The Brotherhood (Free Tier) This is where your journey begins. The Brotherhood is open to any man walking through the fire of betrayal who’s ready to start healing. What’s included: - Access to our main community discussion feed - A supportive space to connect and share your story - Free resources like 7 Days to Stability and Before the Road Begins - Weekly “Forge Sparks” reflection posts and challenges - Monthly live group coaching call open to all members, including a Q&A time - Announcements and updates about events and new programs If you’re just starting out or need a place to find your footing, The Brotherhood gives you the foundation to begin. 2. The Inner Circle (Paid Tier) The Inner Circle is for men ready to go deeper — to move from surviving to rebuilding with structure, accountability, and support. What’s included: - Everything in The Brotherhood - Daily 2-Minute Drills to build strength and focus - Access to Marco Polo peer groups for real connection and accountability - 4 live group calls each month on topics like trauma, trust, continued healing and emotional regulation - Guest sessions with therapists, coaches, and healed men who share their wisdom - Exclusive resources: guided meditations, journals, advanced tools - Early access and discounts for programs like The Forge Bootcamp and Roadmap to Reconciliation The Inner Circle is where real transformation happens. It’s a community of men doing the work together, walking shoulder to shoulder through the fire — and rising stronger because of it. No matter which level you start with, you’re part of this brotherhood. The Forge isn’t just about healing. It’s about rediscovering who you are and rebuilding your life with clarity, courage, and purpose.
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The Forge Bootcamp Session Wednesday-Open to all members
Join us this Wednesday from 1 -2 pm EST as we talk about Paralysis Analysis and how this phenomenon keeps men stuck while healing from infidelity. It will be hosted right here through the calendar. See you then!
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Forgiveness s Reconciliation
D day for me is 5 months ago, and in the days after I was a mess. Completely alone with my daughters leaving for college with the woman I loved and who I thought loved me. Until I found out she had an affair and spent 20k on credit cards. We had a happy marriage. My wife confirmed this a day or two after D day. None of this made sense, so I tried to make sense of it all. Affair books, Chat GPT, podcasts, MC, and The Forge. Recently Paul and I spoke about the difference between reconciliation and forgiveness. Forgiveness is FOR ME, and will allow me to put aside all of my anger and confusion and take a step back from the confusion. As I recently told another guy in the group, “she broke it, she bought it”. So as I work on forgiveness, I sit back and wait to see if reconciliation is even an option. That ball is mostly in her court. It’s a work in progress, but it gives me something to work towards for myself, not for her, and not for our relationship. When I was trying to fix everything, I would mostly end up frustrated and resentful.
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Happy Thanksgiving
I know holidays can bring even more stress and anxiety in the midst of navigating infidelity. You have permission to do what you need to feel peace. It’s not selfish, it’s self care. Set boundaries, leave the room, take a walk, whatever you need to reset and ground yourself. You are not alone. Reach out if you need help. Paul
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The Forge is a brotherhood where men rise from betrayal’s fire, rebuild with courage, and forge strength through healing and brotherhood.
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