Day 1 HOMEWORK 🔥 · Instagram For R*tards

Alex Kral

4d • ✍️ Homework

Day 1 HOMEWORK 🔥

I hope I did this all correctly 😅

Day 1 — Struggles & Wins (get real)

5 Struggles

I struggle financially, I have a hell of a time keeping my finances in order I feel like I’m constantly on the run for what’s going to pay my bills next, living paycheck to paycheck has really affected my self esteem and my ability to explore and experience new things
Believing in my self is one thing that isn’t to easy for me. And it’s weird because I haven’t completely dropped the ball on everything I’ve ever done in life but there constantly that voice in the back of my head that tells me the million reasons why what I’m doing isn’t a good idea or I’m not doing it right, it’s a voice that pulls me down when I try to motivate my self to keep going
I over think about everything I’m constantly controlled by what the outcome might be instead of just living in the moment , I find myself zoning out thinking about the worst out come of the situation I’m in or simply not allowing my self to be fully immersed because I’m to worried about what might happen good or bad.
There’s a side of me that doesn’t feel like I’m fully providing for my family I have a step son who is 5 and my fiancé. Every step I take is to propel this family forward into a better future financially and mentally ,I had a tough time growing up as most did but I cannot imagine making my family go thru a life like I had but every day there’s that voice that says I’m not doing good enough or I should have done more
I struggle to have self confidence in myself and the way I look not because I’m overweight or anything like that I just find my self disproportional I’ve tried keeping a gym schedule but I always seem to get side tracked with life and everything else going on

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5 Contrasting Wins:

Even tho finances have been a big struggle in my life right now I’ve been able to slowly put together the funds for a down payment on my first home which could create more financial problems but I feel like these opens a new path of motivation to make sure I really have my bills paid
Self esteem has been a hard one when that voice come on in the back of my head I try to make myself remember how well I am doing , I have an amazing family and a great job that pays decent and a ton of great support around me
Overthinking has been a pretty big part of who I am a really big way this has helped me is making sure that all the little details are accounted for in my life and my family’s , it allows me to keep us on schedule not for get important dates and events such as our new home that we’re buying my fiancé didn’t want to check In the attic and I needed to know what was up there so I went ahead and check and we needed finding white mold 🧐
My family is my biggest priority in life 90% of what I do is to make sure we as a family are safe and secure I did have the best up bringing so I am constantly on the prowl for how exactly I can be better than my parents for example it may seem dumb but I never got the option to have things that were close to my parents we never really bonded so I’m always trying to take my step son out to do fun thing like going to the park and riding bikes together
Confidence is something I’ve always struggled with when I graduated high school. I knew that I didn’t wanna be the kid in the corner eating lunch alone Anymore so I started to look for ways to advance my social skills and my confidence and I started working in door-to-door sales and I’ve been doing that for almost 3 1/2 four years now and it is taking me great lengths I have so much confidence in myself now makes life a lot easier.

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Circled Contrasting Win (to use this week): Burnout.

Hook Activity: Write 3 Curiosity Loop Hooks:

1. I work 10 hours days and just bought my first home want to know how I keep my self for burning out . Check this out.

2. how does a 22 year old buy there first home work a full time job and take care of his family? You’ll never guess how I do it without getting burnt out

3.i used to get burn out more often than not, every day felt sluggish until it didn’t. Want to know my secret?

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