We often speak of soulmates as if there’s only one, a single person written in the stars just for us. But life feels more like a constellation than a straight line. Our soulmates can be many, arriving in different forms and at different moments along our journey. Not only lovers, but friends, family, and even brief encounters that leave a lasting imprint. In fact, the idea of a soulmate goes far beyond romance, it’s simply someone with whom we share a deep, natural love connection, in any form. A soulmate is someone who meets you exactly where you are. They are the perfect companion for the identity and situation you are living in that moment. And when you shift, when you grow, heal, or expand, the connection can change too. Not because it wasn’t real, but because its role was fulfilled. And here’s something we don’t talk about enough: soulmates do coexist. We are capable of sharing deep, meaningful love with more than one person at the same time. Our capacity to love is not limited, it expands. The more we tap into it, the more it grows, like a flame that doesn’t divide when shared, it multiplies. ➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖ In the picture attached, you can see one of my soulmates, my brother. (He's making faces like a little boy... he just can't avoid being funny when we are together 😁) This is a lifetime of unconditional love… maybe even one that echoes across other timelines. He’s a successful businessman in his 50s, grounded, experienced, living his path. And yet, when we are together, the child I helped raise always finds his way back to meet me. I’ve always been a source of love, support and care in his life. I feel him as my first child. - When he’s with me, his inner child softens. He feels safe, seen, and deeply loved. - And when I’m with him, something in me lights up. A quiet, pure joy, effortless and full. You can almost feel it just by looking at us. He is my first and eternal soulmate. We meet heart to heart, in unconditional love always. And in those moments, my soul overflows…

Let me tell you a story, a couple years ago when I was 16, I had a business were I would sell stuff on eBay, and surprisingly after a couple of weeks of listing things I sold all the stuff for like $2000, which is a lot for a 16 year old in school. Although this was a goal of mine for so long, I did not feel happy even despite success. Why was this? 1. It was not fully online, I always wanted to have an online business, and while this was progress, I did not like this, as I wanted to be location and time independent. 2. It was not going to be consistent, I legit just sold tons of stuff around my house that was never used, but the thing was I sold all of it and there was nothing more, so… 3. I chased money not purpose, I got burnt out as I never would have done it other than the fact it made some money, this was due to my unhealed trauma motivating me to seek out these things like money just to hopefully get validation from those who give me trauma. 4. I did not believe in time off, at this time I was very much caught up in: “David Goggin’s, Andrew Tate” mode, and as a result of that I felt burnout. Those are the big 4 reasons, and yeah now that you know my story, let’s explain how we can actually help you avoid burnout with your business, and so you do not achieve success, yet still do not feel happy, as that is horrible. 1. Chase purpose, not money, being needy for money will not only get you none! It was also make you fickle, switch your mind too much, as you will just trend hop, get shiny object syndrome, go for the money, the money, chase customer results, purpose and money will come as a result of that. 2. Take breaks, some David Goggin’s motivation/discipline can be great, but do not get too caught up in living your life always in discipline, it is not sustainable, taking breaks is fine, and it is productive, as you take the rest, so you can come back and work harder, its kind of like sleep, but yeah seriously if you worked hard for a period, then you want to take time off and do whatever is fun for you, you can do that guilt free. 3. Heal trauma, this is similar to my point of chasing purpose and not money, you see whenever you have unhealed trauma, this is when you will be needy for validation, all those things, and one way many, many people chase external validation, is they are fuelled fully by their unhealed trauma, that is there motive for making money, and as a result they will chase money not purpose, this is not good, heal your trauma! 4. Prioritise mental health, healing trauma is one way you do this, but I also want to say even in your hard business grind modes, always keep your mental health sane, do meditation, gratitude journaling, get sunlight, exercise, and no these are not time wasting habits, they will make you think clearer, make better decisions, make you a better version of you, this will help with burnout and even your business results!

I was thinking yesterday, as I was just getting to the end of the day, what if I lose everything? What if I lose all my clients, my Skool community and etc. And yeah, it is a pretty interesting topic. So yeah, that got me thinking what I would do if I got zeroed out, and I thought of it. While relationships, jobs, and businesses can go in an instant. There is one thing you can always keep with you… Your mental health. Even if I put you in an empty room and you lost everything, if you had good mental health it wouldn’t be so bad. So prioritise it then, heal trauma, meditate, do gratitude, live a healthy natural life, get sunlight eat clean, exercise and you know what to do. Thanks for reading, hope it was valuable.