Day 12 is about Overcoming People Pleasing and being the “FIXER” this video explores the people-pleasing pattern, discussing how childhood experiences can lead to constantly trying to please others and fix their problems, and provides techniques to break free from this cycle you will find the video in the classroom in the challenge course area titled “21 Day Curriculum”, go to “Day12” and access it here: https://www.skool.com/highvibetribe/classroom/ced763b3?md=2164d5b4d5474de9a5fd3d92bb922254 Day 12 HW: 💝watch this video about people-pleasing from the LIVE Event 💝practice the "frame technique" 💝share your BIGGEST insight from the video here in the group. how you can start pleasing yourself and ways you'll begin to embrace your "bad side" by setting boundaries? use #day12 on your HW posts or just comment below! 💝optional: choose any of the Aaron AI prompts to go all in on this lesson

How often in conversation with someone can you feel yourself steering them in any direction? Wanting them to see their power, wanting them to like you, wanting them to be positive, etc? Isn’t it interesting how that energy has the opposite effect? The more you want them to be positive, the more they go into their problems… The more you want them to like you, the more you can feel yourself repelling them… The more you want them to see their power, the more they go into victim mode and don’t… Here is something I’ve learned from 9 years of coaching 1,000’s of people And you can apply this in your life with friends, co-workers, etc I’ve learned that for the coaching to be powerful… I have to have NO AGENDA and be willing to go into the unknown My job is to be present and to connect to the part of themselves that have the answers inside of them I ran a live call on Monday in my 21 day challenge and while on it I could feel how the more present I am, the more the people become as a reflection In that present energy people feel safe and connect to themselves where all the answers are A few years ago I would have an agenda to “get people into their power” “see their patterns and let them go” “heal their shadows” etc That energy infuses the belief that they aren’t whole the way they are and don’t have the power inside of themselves and need ME People are either opening their hearts/energy or are in protection and closed/contracted When YOU open, you allow others to open through state transference It reminds me of when people talk about how how enlightened people would not see people as “sick” and in their presence they would be healed Today's message of the day is to practice being present by accepting the moment as it is, and trusting that the people around you have the answers inside them That belief will hold a frame for them that will allow them to tap into their own power And in that energy you won’t take on responsibility for their energy too Let me know in the comments below:

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